Problems with my mom and sister?

my mom and sister have not gotten along for as long as i can remember. me and my sister are both adopted and they have gotten into fights where my mom has said she wished she never adopted her, and my mom would grab my sisters hair. she would just be really abusive.

with 4 kids in the house, two of which is adopted, i feel like there are alot of issues between siblings, paretns and siblings, and between my parents.

how do i fix this. would removing myself from this situation be best. my sister and i fight like crazy. she takes from me all the time.

Problems with my mom and sister?

I am adopted too. However, my answer has little to do with that issue. I'd say that you should get your life in order. Go to school. Get a good job. Then, if anyone deserves it, you can help them out.

Problems with my mom and sister?

its not your mom, its your sister...she needs a good as s kicking

Problems with my mom and sister?

Well, it sounds like your sister is the problem. I would just remove myself from the situation.

Problems with my mom and sister?

you should ask someone for help

Problems with my mom and sister?

wow. thats mean.

tell ur sister to buy a gift to ur mom

Problems with my mom and sister?

Only you can know what is best for you. Are you old enough to leave home? You should concentrate on YOUR relationship with other members of the house. There is nothing you can do to change how others are behaving, but at least you can try to make things better for your own situation. Good luck.

Problems with my mom and sister?

the bible says brothers and sisters should dwell in unity. in other words, just try to get along. just keep control of your temper and your sister and mom can apolagize and if it doesn't get better, like if you start getting really worried, you can call a hotline or something. :)

Problems with my mom and sister?

get help.

sorry for your sister ;/

Problems with my mom and sister?

Yes, removing yourself from this situations would be the best thing for you. You will not be able to help the problem, however, by leaving you just might allow them the chance to reflect and seek improvement.

Problems with my mom and sister?

Your all a family now, adopted or not adopted. Siblings fight, and the conflicts you have with your sister are normal and get better as you guys grow up. As for your mom...she doesn't have the right to lay a hand on your sister--she can be called in by children services, and your sister can be taken away...point is: what your mom is doing is wrong.

have you tried talking about it with your mom? tell her how you felt? or have your mom and your sister ever tried talking it out?

Dont lose hope...families need to fix their problems together..and if it comes down to seeing a family phsychiatrist, try it. there's not hurt in it at all.

If your mom continues to lash out and be abusive, you need to tell someone you trust, get help..does your dad know about this?

Problems with my mom and sister?

If your mom is abusive you need to tell someone. Your teacher, someone from church, the doctor, or an adult that you trust. If you tell the truth, things will be resolved. You can do it, your life is worth so much more than this. Best of luck.

Problems with my mom and sister?

Try getting your brothers and sisters together and write out a list of how ur parents are being unfair or how they come off to you and ur siblings. after that try and calmly talk about it with ur parents. As for u and ur sister try fixing things with ur parents and maybe things with her will fall into place she is probally taking her problems out on u and not even noticing.

Problems with my mom and sister?

It sounds like the real issue is between your sister and mom, not you and anyone. So taking you out of an equation that doesn't involve you won't resolve anything. My first question would be how old is your sister and other siblings?

If your mom can't see the blessing that they have, which is having 2 biological kids and 2 adoptive ones, then there is more wrong with her. I would give anything to adopt kids and show them the love they need and deserve, that would be equal to any other kids that I may have.

Would therapy be a solution? For many this is a viable option.

I assume there is also tension between your sister and your other siblings. How is your relationship with them? Are you compatible with everyone or is there conflict there too? Is you sister abusive with anyone else besides you mom?

I guess there are too many unanswered questions to determine and good solution. If you can provide more, I'd love to give my opinion.

Problems with my mom and sister?

The solution to this problem lies somewhere between your mom and your sister.

You asked how YOU fix this, but you aren't being very fair to yourself, by expecting this to be YOUR responsibility to be fixed.

Yes removing yourself from the situation would be best, but I am not sure we understand each others meaning of being removed from the situation. There are many ways that you can detach from the situation on an emotional level without having to be physically GONE.

So please don't misinterpret my agreement that you should detach yourself from issues that exist between your mom and your sister as my approval that you should run away from home, because that is NOT what I mean.

I think the problems within your family go far deeper than just some hair pulling, and using labelling such as "adopted" etc.

I think your entire family would benefit from some councelling.

Problems with my mom and sister?

You should talk to someone you trust about your home situation. Talk to your school counselor, teacher, or your pastor. Your sister should not be treated that way. You should not have to live in such a hostile environment. Please talk to a trusted adult to help you get some help.