My daughter is 4. I let her pick her own outfits at the stores we shop at and she picks out all boring brown and black clothes.At her preschool all the kids are wearing red, purple, and pink sparkley dresses when she comes with a ripped up jean skirt with black leggings and a tight black tank top. We live by a kids jewlery store called Claires and we recintly got her ear peirced. She picked plain black balls for her earing. I told her after we got her ears peirced she could get 10 things from the 99 cent rack and she picked a pair of black gloves, dark dark purple nail polish, a hair clip with green hair, silver belt [that she wears by her waist whithout putting it in belt hoops, and 6 silver bangles. She then said at the cash register "Here I'll cover it" She took out 10 dollers out of her lether wallet. She gave it to he women and said "Here ya go have a nice day" Oh my god what should I do she is turning into a goth child.
My four year old acts too grown up what should I do?
What does she watch on TV?
What music does she listen too?
Who is she around the most?
Feed her with positive, light-hearted, fun simple experiences.
She seems to know too much at 4 and think about it too much - maybe too self aware, get her involved in some tasks that help others
My four year old acts too grown up what should I do?
I agree with the last two answers. You're pathetic and you really do need a life. Who has the time to sit here and type all that up just to trick us? Report It
My four year old acts too grown up what should I do?
let your kid do her own thing and she'll grow up to amaze you. she likes what she likes...not much sense in FORCING her to change is there??
My four year old acts too grown up what should I do?
I think you should be the one in charge here NOT HER. You are the one who decides what is good or bad for her, so show her that wearing ripped up clothing or goth is unacceptable and wont be tolerated
Its good though that she is learning how to be mature and choose things for herself , but you are her parent and you decide what is good or bad for her.
My four year old acts too grown up what should I do?
Grow up. Find something else to do.
My four year old acts too grown up what should I do?
She's only 4, you should be picking out her clothes. The deal with the dark colors, maybe she likes dark colors. She's getting it from somewhere and if she's an only child you may need to look at the closest thing to her...you.
My four year old acts too grown up what should I do?
If she isn't exposed to the Goth culture, then I doubt that she's being a Goth. (silver belts and bangles, a blue-jean skirt and brown clothes don't sound very Goth to me..true Goths tend to emulate a more vampire look).
She probably simply prefers the more somber colors with slightly more outstanding accessories. Let her wear the somber colors, but perhaps you could buy a few accessories for her yourself that are bit more colorful. You should also be mindful that the brightly dressed children probably don't get to pick out their own clothes.
My four year old acts too grown up what should I do?
Kids that age emulate their parents. Maybe you need to restrict what she's watching on television (Exposed is not appropriate), and tone done what you're wearing. Also, remember that you're the Mom. You don't have to ask her to go to the park--tell her the two of you are going to the park. Set up some play dates. Buy a trunk full of dress-up clothes and dress up with her! As soon as she sees that Mom thinks being a kid is cool, she will let herself enjoy being a kid.
My four year old acts too grown up what should I do?
She sounds like she was born an adult. There's nothing wrong with it as long as you don't let her take it too far. Looks like she may be a designer of some kind. Let her explore in the directions that she seems to be interested in, as long as she knows she has to follow certain rules. Let her think you are the mom and some things have to go your way. Don't let her run you down. If you do it will be hard to get back your title (Mom). Along the way, encourage her to branch off into other directions. Find one or two that will interest her. Try to let her think some things are her ideas but try to encourage her into things that will build her character. Keep her heart close to yours; you don't want to loose her.
My four year old acts too grown up what should I do?
I see lots of girls these days who wear clothes that shock me with their teenage style. I think your daughter will be fine. ; ) It doesn't sound to me like her clothes are particularly scary, and it's great that she's comfortable expressing her own personality.
My four year old acts too grown up what should I do?
Maybe if she wants to keep being so grown up she can start having grown-up responsibilities.
How did she get the $10 in her wallet? Did she do chores around the house to earn it? At four years old, you should still be making the majority of decisions for her. Sounds like she has way too much decision making power for her age.
My four year old acts too grown up what should I do?
retard. yet another fake question. now off to bed. how old are you ??? 8???? probably
My four year old acts too grown up what should I do?
you need a life!!!
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