Can my estranged spouse demand that no overnight guests are permitted in the home he left over 7 yrs

I live in the house where we raised our kids. We fought bitterly during our marriage due to his drinking and refusal to account for large amounts of money spent. When he left, my daughter had been out of high school for one year, working for a year before entering college.(she was very young in her class so this was a good idea) My son was in 9h grade. My husband DID put about 1000 into a joint account to help pay the mortgage and many loans that were jointly owned every month. This 1000 is still being paid (which is a little less than the mortgage) while I cover about 850 dollars in joint credit payments. In addition I have taken out parent loans in only my name as he refused to help pay for college for the kids. I have also paid all the maintenance costs including lawn and pool care, and all the extras while the kids were away a college, ie books, parking, spending money, hair cuts, clothes. We agreed to begin to try to sell the house. He is now acting like I am a tenant

Can my estranged spouse demand that no overnight guests are permitted in the home he left over 7 yrs ago?

Got news for him if you stayed it is your house and he can no longer tell you who can visit and who can not. If he wants to act like your a tenant then it still works that way once you rent a place the land lord only has say about pets and the way the home is cared for not who comes in it. And if all you get is the 1,000 than sounds like childsuport to me cant use that to tell you what to do. He left and just because he is not happy and does not want to see you with anyone else does not mean he can stop your life from moving on. My ex keep the house and I only can say anything about visiters if my kids are there at the time and or if he wants the person to move in. Because of the kids but I can not stop him.

Can my estranged spouse demand that no overnight guests are permitted in the home he left over 7 yrs ago?

tell that ex of yours to go to hell...where he belongs! sounds like he is "trying" to still control u and u are not even married to the asss anymore!

Can my estranged spouse demand that no overnight guests are permitted in the home he left over 7 yrs ago?

H E L L NO.

Can my estranged spouse demand that no overnight guests are permitted in the home he left over 7 yrs ago?

what u do is none of hes business anymore.

Can my estranged spouse demand that no overnight guests are permitted in the home he left over 7 yrs ago?

NO HE CANNOT

Can my estranged spouse demand that no overnight guests are permitted in the home he left over 7 yrs ago?

No he has no right to tell you who you can let stay over night , or even move in. I would live in the house until it sold. and tell him to mind his own business. He doesn't have any control over what you do. I wish you the best .

Can my estranged spouse demand that no overnight guests are permitted in the home he left over 7 yrs ago?

Now I know why I don't date men with kids! Too much Baby Mama Drama! I would get as far away from this guy as fast as I could! I would sell the house take whatever money you can and run to the hills as fast as you can. I can't believe after 7 yrs. this guy thinks he's still in the ballgame and is the boss. Your youngest son only has a couple more yrs. and then he is going to go out on his own. Do you really need all that space in the future. Cash it all in and go on vacation for yourself. This guy is setting you up for a train wreck.

Can my estranged spouse demand that no overnight guests are permitted in the home he left over 7 yrs ago?

It doesn't matter if he puts a million in your account every month, he has no right to dictate your life. It seems bizarre to me that you would even ask... are you afraid of him? How in the world has he maintained such control over you?

I'd sit down and write a list of why in the world you have continued to allow him to intimidate you... I assume you are an adult since you have college age children...why aren't you divorced? Have the financial arrangements gone through the court system... if not, perhaps they should.

Can my estranged spouse demand that no overnight guests are permitted in the home he left over 7 yrs ago?

Don't worry, he has no recourse. It is just a nasty power play. Ignore him, and if it doesn't stop, hire a lawyer to put a straight jacket on him. Tell the lawyer that if your husband calls him to tell the husband to write him a letter. He might try running up your bill with the lawyer by making phone calls.

Can my estranged spouse demand that no overnight guests are permitted in the home he left over 7 yrs ago?

The house wasn't taken care of during the divorce settlement? Did he agree to let you have it or it's always been in both names? Doesn't matter if it is, but if it was in just your name, you can tell him to flake off,permanently. Can you buy his half of the house? Possession is 9/10ths of the law they say, so he still has no right to put any demands on you. He is loving trying to control you evidently. Tell him to leave you alone, and you'll let him know when you have a prospective buyer. Sounds like you are going above and beyond in being more than fair with payments for house and children. You may have to get a lawyer again or a restraining order to keep him away. Good luck!

Can my estranged spouse demand that no overnight guests are permitted in the home he left over 7 yrs ago?

Tell him to kiss your ***!!

Can my estranged spouse demand that no overnight guests are permitted in the home he left over 7 yrs ago?

"Estranged" spouse?? I take it you are still married. Is his concern you not have any fun in bed with another man or the fact he does not want his children to see you having a sleep over? If the children are no longer in the house I don't see any problem with you entertaining your man friend. However, be prepared to loose the $1000 bucks a month. That mortgage should be almost paid off it seems to me anyways. Please check the Internet about laws in your state concerning a spouse leaving a house for an extended time. He may have lost all right to the house (even though he sent you $1000 a month) I don't quit understand your set up here. Is it you remain married so you will have health care?

The truth be told, how would he know if you had a man friend over? I assume he has sleep overs. Does he not allow even a relative to spend the night? He seems rather controlling for not wanting to be a husband to you. But then that is how all husbands act if you ask me.

Can my estranged spouse demand that no overnight guests are permitted in the home he left over 7 yrs ago?

no he can't. how is he going to stop you? I hope you sell the house soon. That is ridiculous.