My wife hits me and pulls my hair and even hits herself and pulls her hair when we get into an argument. The abuse is getting worse. She says the kids and I have ruined her life. Our youngest is two and she doesn't get along good with him at all. She has almost stopped cooking for everyone. She lets clothes pile up for day's and her cleaning habits are horrible. My life is a nightmare right now. She refuses to go see a therapist. I'm worried I'm going to lose my kids and they are going to suffer when the court's award her full custody. Courts are prone to giving kids to the mother here! When I try to talk to her, she immediately goes to the bedroom and cover's up her head. My argument has been that I want someone that will work with me and not against me. I want someone who will not hit me when we don't see eye to eye. I'm beginning to feel like I deserve alot better, but I don't want to destroy my life or my babies. Thanks.
My wife and I have been married for 9 years, we have 3 children?
You need to talk to a private investigator and ask that he plant some hidden cameras and microphones in your house. This is to document her behavior. Then, the next time she puts her hands on you, you CALL THE POLICE on her butt. She will no doubt blame the violence oon you when they come, and will probably point to her own self-inflicted bruises as proof. That's why you want the cameras and audio. Uunfortunately, DV issues accusing men require a guilty until proven innocent assumption. You also need to contact an attorney, and I mean ASAP!!! The longer you wait, the less credibility you will have.
Your wife is a total mess. It doesn't even sound like it is worth trying to work out. You DO deserve better, and if you don't kick her out, and soon, she will destroy your life for you. And it does your kids no good at all to watch her antics.
I feel for you, Brother. But you gotta get her out of there. Now
El Chistoso
My wife and I have been married for 9 years, we have 3 children?
Hire a divorce attorney and sue for custody. Show documentation of what your wife does.
My wife and I have been married for 9 years, we have 3 children?
if you get a female lawyer then chances are good that you wont lose
My wife and I have been married for 9 years, we have 3 children?
SECRETLY RECORD YOUR WIFES ABUSE AND VIDEO TAPE IT. TALK TO A LAWYER AFTER YOU HAVE GOT THE PROOF YOU NEED. YOUR CHILDREN ARE ALSO IN A ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR WIFE. SHE ISNT COOKING,CLEANING OR SEEING TO THEIR NEEDS AND THAT IS VERY SAD FOR ALL OF YOU. I WISH YOU THE BEST. ALSO PHOTOGRAPH THOSE PILED UP CLOTHES.
My wife and I have been married for 9 years, we have 3 children?
You have got to get her out of your life and take custody of the children before she damages them as well. Go and talk to a good attorney and plan how you are going to do this before she gets an inkling of what you are up to.
My wife and I have been married for 9 years, we have 3 children?
Google Borderline Personality Disorder and see if this is issue. IF it sounds like your life then read the book "Stop Walking on Eggshells." This will be very illuminating.
When you divorce you need to make her mental health the issue. If there is any way to get her evaluated before you separate that will help --- -once you separate and she has a lawyer, her lawyer will fight an evaluation. The court does favor mothers but it also hates abusers. Start keeping a log of the abuse....no emotion just the date, situation, and who said and did what. This will be available to you in the custody evaluation and if you have been keeping the log for awhile and consistently updating it, it will be hard for them to ignore.
I am sorry for what you are going though, it sounds similar to my fist marriage....I have custody of the kids.
Good luck.
My wife and I have been married for 9 years, we have 3 children?
YOU NEED TO EXPLAIN THIS TO THE JUDGE, period. The moment you two had children, it transcended beyond the two of you. Its all about the children now. My stepfather won soul ccustody of both his boys,(the kids from his previous marriage) and she challenged him by taking him back to court after he got back from Iraq. She only won 49% custody and the rest went to him, based on the fact that one, she fell in love with some other guy in New Zea land and two, she never even bothered to see her other child that has Autism. Not even once in the last 12 years. To top it all off she tried to get pregnant several times and had more than 6 miss carriages, due to the fact that she has Lupus. Funny how life throws you a curve ball at you every now and then (rolling my eyes). I think that you should also explain to the judge that you think that a Physiological Evaluation should be set into place. NO KID SHOULD BE SUBJECTED TO SITUATIONS LIKE THAT! Explain what you witness, and the rest is in Gods hands, as they say. Also please start calling around to different retainers.
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My wife and I have been married for 9 years, we have 3 children?
it sounds like you have a wife that is screaming for help and desprately needs it, and seeing as you have a 2 yr old has anyone mentioned Post-Partum Depression, all of these things need to be looked at, if she refuses to go for therapy then you will probably be forced to call the police and file charges on her for domestic violence, or go through child protective services and that way you can prove to them that you want to get your children some help and maybe they can force the issue with her, and then follow through with what they want you to do. seriously this woman is literally screaming for help in the only way she knows how, please help her and that way if it dosen't work out your conscience is clear, and you are more likely to get custody, 3 kids in 9 years and a 2 year old, she is overwhelmed and the post partum depression is a very real thing and it can last this long and longer if not treated
My wife and I have been married for 9 years, we have 3 children?
you sound like a girlie man
who gave birth, her or you%26gt;?
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