A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

for all the perverted males that have just clicked that link that i posted, get out of this because this does not concern you or your perverted comments!

well my mom wont let me pluck my eye brows!

they are bussshhhy and they get on my nerves!

heeelllllllp!please give me advice!im in the 6th grade.is that when girls start going through these things?

help!

i've tried talking to my mom about it but she busted out yelling and saying no!

why is that?

why dont parents let kids put makeup on or shave or whatever?

help me!

once i just started plucking my eyebrows and praticlly messed them up! my big sisters wont help me because one is on the phone all day and if she wasnt she still wouldnt. and the other is busy like doing excersises or something like that!

soo i pretty much have no one to go to [i think] but YOU!

so please helpp! me!

fastt!and any straightening hair tips[dont worry im allowed to straighten my hair]hahahah!

A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

well since you already tried plucking them, i'm assuming, you can do something else to your eyebrows without your mom saying anything. I would go to a hair salon and get them waxed. They only cost like $7 and the lady will make the perfect shape. Once you have the shape. Whenever you see hairs growing back, you pluck them, following the shape. But go back to wax twice a month maybe.

A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

Just do your eyebrows.

Seriously, what is the worst trouble you can get into?

A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

Hmm any chance in gettin bangs? Or just go get them waxed

A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

Well you should probably contact your local dermatologist because of the fact that plucking eyebrows can release spores carrying gingtrichosis which can have many effects such as elongation of ear hairs, nasal hairs, and mid digital hair between your fingers.

A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

Ok you can do it yourself... use a little brush and brush the brows up. Any that look too long over the natural browline , pluck it out.

Pluck your eyebrows when your pores are open. This is either after a shower or after you have applied a hot face cloth to your skin for a few minutes.

Place the tip of the tweezer as close to the root of the hair as possible and pull, always pulling in the direction of hair growth and keeping the tweezers angled as close to your skin as possible

A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

I think parents worry about their kids going overboard, or possibly causing themselves injury (I'm a mom, and yes, I can get a little overprotective).

Ask your mom what she suggests :) It may sound silly, but mom can give you the best advice you will ever remember... trust me ;)

A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

my mom won't let me do ANYTHING, sounds like yours! haha, but i still do it anyway and i think she gets used to it. she just needs to understand that ppl develop at differnt times. i have used my dad's razor before for shaving and it's SUCH a bad idea! haha, but hey i was desperate. as for your plucking eyebrows, my mother doesnt encourage that either... but i do it anyway. not hard to get a tweezer. however, i cna't exactly SHOW you how to pluck your eyebrows.... so as for your badly plucked eyebrows... well, just wait for them to grow bad and then pluck them again. make sure both sides are the same size and shape!!! watch some plucking eyebrow videos online or something but not hard to do! as for straightening hair, BUY STRAIGHTENING BALM. that's #1. it PROTECTS your hair from damage, which can turn out terrible!!! wash your hair, put on balm especially on ends of hair while still little damp, blow dry hair, straighten hair. hoep it helps and good luck! sometimes you just gotta do things yourself!

A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

go to a salon where they wax-they r professionals...theres a rare chance theyll mess up , making ur mom a little nicer on making ur eyebrows less thick

A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

YOU ARE IN THE SIXTH GRADE. are you serious? you shouldn't worry about that stuff until at least 7th grade. you're waaay to young.

A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

most girl wax their eye brows in about seventh grade but maybe your mom just doesnt want you to start acting too old too fast. ask her if she could maybe trim/tweeze them for you so you both win.

and on straightening your hair- try not to do it every day, but i definatly recomend the Chi. its expensive but worth it! use anti frizz products and straighten your hair patiently when dry.

you should comb through your hair, make a part, and tie your hair into sections with a scrunchie so you can seperate the straight hair from the curly hair.

also- don't wash your hair everyday, try to keep your straightened hair in for two days so you wont have to do it as much and it wont get too damaged!

A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

lol....i know exactly what ur going through. my mom did the same exact thing to me, she didnt let me do my eyebrows until the 8th grade, and they were pretty bushy...lol

and i have no idea why parents are like that...

A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

If your mom won't let you do it, then ask to be taken to a professional. The cost is 10$, so your mom can't say that it's "too expensive". If you start doing your own brows, it's likely that you'll over pluck and it won't look good. A professional will give you a nice brow shape that actually makes your eyes pop!

Parents are silly, I don't think anyone could understand them. When your sisters were younger, they probably overplucked their eyebrows or something and your mom is trying to protect her.

Try talking to your mom. Tell her that you are actually embarrassed by your eyebrows. Tell her that you need to start shaving.

A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

I'm in the sixth grade too but I don't have bushy eyebrows or anything but I have some tips just shave it off with your mom's razor or something

A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

well just pluck them already

whats ur mom gonna do, make them grow back?

:]

and about your hair, keep in mind, it ruins it for EVER. i straightened my hair like most of last year, and now i just have it curly 24/7. it looks really good in pigtails, actually.

anyway, kind of off topic.

Point is, if you're sure you want to ruin your hair, make sure you're putting some sort of product on it to protect it at least a little. A nicer way of straightening your hair is to have a big round brush and a hair dryer and just have fun with it.

you could/should talk to your hair stylist about it.

A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

haha sweetie... I plucked my eyebrows in 7th grade... Mine were horriable! hopefully yours arent that bad! your mom just wants thebest for you...and the longer you wait sopposively it is better... but if you really want to get eyebrow stenclis and then do it that way! I went to a friends house that did it for me the first time... and a trick to plucking your eyebrows:

Go from the crease of your nose straight up in a straight line. that is how far they should go towards your nose.

Then go diagonal from the crease of your nose and go straight through your pupil...that is were it should arch.

Then go past your eye a little bit and thats your eyebrows!!

Now for straightening your hair....Um there are some really good straightners from conair for like 20$. I would also get some hair procetor spray stuff.... it makes your hair soft and really straight and thinner if you have thick hair!

A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

ok first, u really dnt need to wrry bout it quite yet cuz boys wnt notice stuff like that till theyre at least 25 yrs old lol no jk but id say 8th grade or 9th grades a good time to start. if you screw it up at this age, sometimes the hairs wnt grow back n ul end up with messed up brows. i have a huge chunk i plucked too much n it hasnt grown back...since 7th grade!!! RULE NO.1%26gt; do not pluck above your brows. if it's rlly bushy wax it.

k straightening ur hair, ur gunna want a wet/dry ceramic iron. mine was $40 at stop n shop...ya theyre expensive but they last n allow room for multiple screw ups., which is a give in. it pretty much tells u how to use it. low heat on wet or thin hair and higher heat on thick curly hair. start by putting ur hair half up and half down. straighten the underneath then let ur hair loose and straighten the rest of it. ul figure out with practice how long to do each strand and stuff.

k now for ur mom... try to lay off throwing all this new stuff on her. the hair makeup and eyebrows all at the same time is prolly scaring her in a 'ur growing up too fast' way. be happy about it... in my experience, the girls that look like high schoolers in 6th grade usually end up pregnant. go for shaving first, then after you've been doing that for a few months do lipgloss and eyeshadows in light pink or a yellowy-bronze color. almost see through is the key.. she'll be ok and its rlly cute :) no heavy eyeliner, no lipstick, no rlly bright colors. i mean hey, experiment all you want but its more color coordination than how bright/dark the colors are that she'll care for. if you want ne more help, email me at secretblack6@yahoo.com

GOOD LUCK!!!!!!

A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

With practice you will get very good at plucking your eyebrows. If you rely on nobody to take care of your body, then no one can tell you what to do with your body.

Learn how to take care of your body on your own. Learn to become beautiful without makeup. Learn to do your own hairdos and your own eyebrows. I cut my own hair too.

To pluck your eyebrows evenly is done with practice. If you mess it up, it will grow back in no time.

Curly hair is pretty too .... be gentle to your body. The amount of chemicals you put on your body ( as lipstick for example) will go directly into your blood stream. The lipstick on your lips always end up in your stomach. Many allergies are caused by the chemicals we are surrounded by and the chemicals in our food and in makeup.

If you are going to shave, use soap not shaving lotion. Your mom is seing your new life style as costing her money.

Become a babysitter and earn your own money so you can buy your own razors. I personally use men's Gillette CustomPlus Pivot razors as they are the only razors that do not cut my legs. I have tried many girls' razors and never found a girls's razor that doesn't cut me. Somehow, men's razors are better because they shave their faces with it.

Your mom may not be ready to see you, her little girl, become a teenager. She wants you to stay a little girl for as long as you can.

Only shave below your knees, you do not need to shave above your knees, unless you are hairy like a monkey.

Do not shave your arms, only your arm pits.

Come visit me on my Yahoo360 page if you have more questions ... trust yourself that you too can take care of your body on your own.

Greetings from Seattle

Caroline

A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

Ask your mom to pluck them for you, or ask if you can get them waxed.

A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

Do your eyebrows but only if your completely sure how to do them. A simple way is to get a pencil and put it next to your nose and pluck out any hairs on the other side to your eye brow, then line the pencil up from your nose the the outer corner of your eye and pluck any hairs out on the other side. Then take one hair out at a time along the bottom of they eyebrow. You should be able to tell where the arch naturally is. There should be instructions and pictures of this some where on the internet. For your hair section your hair to straighten it and try not to play with your hair too much to prevent it getting oily. Use products if possible.

A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

Do them with out your mom knowing, but don't do them jurasticly, they don't have to be Dolly Parton or anything! Just pluck the scraggly hairs and with a eyebrow comb just comb the rest to the shape you want.

As far as straightening your hair goes, I don't know if this is what you mean but, it is best to shower every day not just for general hygiene but for the ease of straightening our hair. First apply a straightening mouse to wet hair, blow dry it damp as straight as it can get, if you don't have a blow dryer comb it dry with a tight comb. After your hair is damp take some straightening serum (a dime size at the most you don't want greasy hair) apply it everywhere especially at the roots. Start straightening your hair in layers (bottom to top). When you are finished your WHOLE HEAD spray it with a good hairspray. Take some hair off the top layer of your hair and back-comb it slightly to add volume. Spray it again with hairspray. Remember not to spray hairspray closer than 1 foot from your head. Don't spray specific strands/sections of hair unless you are using aerosol spray. Hope I could help!