Sunday, November 29, 2009

Question about genetics?

I am a teen that has a mom from jamaica and a dad i never met that my mom said he is greek or something like that and he looks white and i turned out white-looking but i'm very tall and hairy for my age i have ALOT (to me) of hair on my legs that NONE of my friends have or have even started developing leg hair yet and are same age or older. having all this hair embarasses me and i try to hide it. i shave it sometimes but my leg hair grows back VERY fast and i dunno why. are people from greece very tall and hairy or something i dunno, and are their kids like me at my age. (i don't wanna say my age exactly, but i just left pre-teen years). what i really want to know if it's just genetics from my dads side. or mabey he's arab i really dunno. please answer, thanx :)



Question about genetics?

Well, first off I'm pretty sure that Greek people are of the hairy sort. Italian people are also very hairy. I've noticed that the hairiness is usually associated with dark skinned people, so maybe you got the dominant gene from both parents. I know that can be really embarrassing. I'm probably about your age and I have hairier legs than most boys my age and a brownish peach fuzz mustache that I shave off. I'm not Greek (that I know of) or any other exotic heritage. I think some people just get the hairy gene. I have no idea why it develops more quickly in some people than others, but I have noticed that leg hair and things like that seem to develop very late in puberty for most boys. As for the height issue, you're just tall. I think Mexican and Chinese people are the only races that have been shown to be significantly shorter than other people. Just don't stress and know that it just means that you will have a head start on your classmates.



Question about genetics?

i think that's Greek coming through



Question about genetics?

greeks are very hairy but not tall im italion and im friggin hairy for my age to



Question about genetics?

I would never tell a self-conscious teenager that he's worrying too much. I know it all goes with the age.



Yes, I believe many Greeks do often have a lot of body hair, as do a lot of Eastern Europeans. I know you feel embarrassed, but trust me, your buds are more than likely very envious of you. Dark thick body hair makes you look older and more "manly" and what boy doesn't want that? They'll have body hair of their own soon enough, and meanwhile they're just curious about yours. Whether you shave or not is up to you. Either way is OK. If I were your buds, I'd rather you left it and let us look it and admire it. Even if you shave it, they'd be curious about that experience, too. So the best thing you can do is accept the attention and make the most of it. You lucky guy.

Can anyone give me an assessment of my short story?

Is it interesting and is it going anywhere?



May could not have come fast enough for the budding group of departing seniors from Colford University. On an evening where the euphoric skyline that draped over the jubilant grads stood still in a blend of blue and tangerine, the day was about to retire into the evening twilight. For the numerous students who packed commuter vans and walked in groups averaging 3-5, their nights were just beginning.



Most were ready to let their hair down after a tumultuous month of papers, exams, and research studies. Among the gallery of white baseball caps, oversized cups and domesticated cackling, stood well known attendees at an off-campus mixer. Ellie Bowden and her group of girlfriends comprised that list. Ellie and her girls were checking out the scenery, as they had so succinctly put into their efforts of meeting men of legitimate dating material.



Across the way, Brendan Rainer had his sights set on the 5鈥? tawny-haired bombshell her mother affectionately refers to as 'A little Ellie-fish, about to enter the big pond of life'.



Wearing a striped, button-down shirt, draped onto dreary denim jeans, and parted black hair and sideburns Brenden has had his ups-and-downs with the girl department. To his chagrin, although he valued and respected women, it has most often proved to be his Achilles heel as far as his love life was concerned. He was usually the best friend and he had long since tired of that image. Him and his buddies were also on hand kicking back in the corner and conversing. Was Ellie Bowden out of his league? Maybe. But then again, he had his gameface on. Nothing was going to stand in his way, except for two Capri-sporting, sandal-wearing, necklaced girls who got his attention first.



In the traditional sense, Brendan and Ellie came from opposite sides of the tracks. In lieu of their social standing, neither lacked drive. Besides, they were graduating college next week, so things should even out smoothly.



Early afternoon, Brendan woke up from a semi-drunken stupor to the hammering of the door from his father Don. Right off the bat the everso blunt, yet overprotective old man of the Rainers look his son square in the eye with a sentiment of Son, we need to talk.鈥?For Brendan this was all too routine. Had it been a cd that lain next to his hundreds of music tapes, a more fitting title of his father's speech would be The Best of Mr. Rainer鈥檚 Bullshit Lectures: Volume 1, available in both Stressful and Unnecessary.. Brendan cared much for his parents although he sought to find his own identity in his 4 years of Colford. His mother Beverly was the first to hug the first of the clan to have done anything productive past high school. She and her husband were high school sweethearts who married into their early 20s and raised Brendan when they were relatively anew to their own existence. Over the years, they had gone out of their way to bond with their kid over a variety of topics, ranging from learning to balance his own check book to sex. Brendan beyond hoped it would not be one of those talks.. Admittedly enough his estrangement from his parents at a young age was not something that would deter his parents from doing their part in raising his son with some semblance of integrity and standard. That did not always stay in tact once Brendan started his freshman year, but then again so didn't his laundry habits.



How you been, dad?,鈥?Brendan asked with heavy eyes and semi-combed hair carrying a heaping helping of a month's worth of wardrobe.



Just bring in the rest of your bags---you know your mom and I really missed you.鈥?



He put on weight, Don,鈥?Beverly chimed.



鈥淚 doubt that, honey.鈥?br>



It's been a while since you been at school, and.we're going to have to ask that you switch to living in the basement or possibly moving out,鈥?his father relayed passively.



What the hell?,鈥?Brendan stood dumbfounded. He looked to his mother with a glance in his eye seeking approval if she would be too put off that he curse up a storm. It would not be the first time.



what about MY room, ma ?鈥?br>



鈥淟ook son, we know this has been a hard pill to swallow but things haven鈥檛 been on the up and up at work,鈥?his father retorted. 鈥淎nd ever since we came here her and I have had a hard enough time getting aid to put your brother and sister through school. That鈥檚 what it is, Brendan. I鈥檓 sorry.鈥?



The middle child of the family was feeling like the forgotten one as he buried his head in his hands with an animated grunt and galloped upstairs before getting the attention of his mother. 鈥淏ren, we did keep your stuff downstairs,鈥?his mother proclaimed to her defeated son, in a tone resembling a game show announcer letting a contestant know they had still won the complimentary parting prize.



"What the hell is that about, man?," was the initial reaction from his buddy Dennis. "I dunno, they're being weird. But maybe it's for the better," Brendan nonchalantly quipped as he drew devil horns around stick figures emulating his folks.Brendan was a drawer who also liked to write. Since artists who occasionally penned was not a solid major, Brendan took side jobs and apprentice work shops after school to hone his passion for drawing. He used to just stick to comic book superheroes until he figured he move on to bigger and better once he hit campus. Plus he did could do without being taunted for it by potential love interests. That night, Brendan and his sentimental entourage of post-collegiate hopeless romantics took to one of Colford Universities popular off-campus dive bars: Chet's. What started out as a series of walks 3 nights a week amid-st tethered finances and the occasionally overdue midterm take home exam, became a car ride into town, feeling like the had taken the wrong turn at the crossroads of their newly-designated roles in society: Rookie real worlders.



Ellie Bowden felt a sense of loss when she had trouble finding a full-time job after graduating with a degree in finance. She was very involved on campus and was a tri-star athlete who excelled in the class, and definitely knew how to have a good time in between and around her endeavors. At times overly conscientious of her looks, Ellie would tussle her strand of tawny-brown locks and bat her green eyes, along with soft lips and a diamond necklace she wore in tribute to her grandmother. Ellie was a family person at heart. Although she felt she may have done some things at college she may not have done after finishing school, nor necessarily felt proud of Ellie sported lots of energy and personality aside from her good looks. She was also not one to take lightly in terns of pulling the wool over her eyes. Months after finishing school, Ellie took notice of how infrequent she would see her friends from high school, let alone some of her suite mates she had been tight with since her sophomore year.



Ellie had her "return nights" at Colford but it was not the same. New faces, new crowd, new drama. Same old routine. Brendan felt similar at his guys night out at Chet's, sitting at the bar watching ESPN parallel to older townsfolk who sported Keno tickets and cigars. His and Shawn and their friends of their old roommates sat awkwardly ajar a storm of spilt drinks and camera flashes. That night, Ellie babysat for her neighbors, but instead of chatting up with some of her old teammates plastered on her cell phone directory, she brought over a scrap book and glossed over it since one of the pages had a congratulations card that said "Here's Looking at you Kid", and had a baby emblazoned on the front. Ellie wanted children of her own somebody, but finding Mr. Right was not something she took lightly, especially when many of the men who had flirted up a storm toward her at Chet's two nights a week back in her final semester were old enough to be her uncle...literally. She was still her mother's princess, her 'Ellie-fish in a pond.' And it really annoyed her with a passion. Though she loved her mother, she wasn't quite ready to take on a role as a 12-year old girl trapped in a young woman's body. Bickering ensued and Ellie's trip to Key West on Spring Break was now rivaled by bickering over keeping her room picked up.



Six months after the homestretch of senior year winded down, talk show reruns and Gelato proved stale to Ellie--a determined post-collegiate, who had sent out hundreds of resumes but ended up getting called off of most jobs she went for. Temping and waitressing to support herself, aside from the clothes store she clamored at since high school, Ellie got the occasional pep talk of others who hated their jobs and ask that someone with as much potential as her break out of her rut and exit their self-proclaimed retail hell. Then she remembered that her time would come in spite of the prominent mentality that who you are replicates what you make of it. Brendan contributed to several on-line magazines to pad his amateur resume, but nothing that paid off his student loans. Characteristically, those that are fortunate---and there are usually a lot of people, who receive their degrees and get into their fields, were on the opposite of Brendan who had since come to feel that he did not know what the hell he wanted to do with his life. Even though he had not needed much of his parents help when he lived on campus, he commonly never turned it down when offered. Truth be told, both of Colford's fresh new representatives in finding themselves after dusk has overcast their dawn of post-adolescence-- alongside the always prominent 'we're not kids anymore, now what?!' mentality were pawns of the separation anxiety that thrusted what was set to be the crossroads of their journey into their mid-twenties. Both were hard workers, but each had their own parental sparring and runaround responses from job recruiters that they were not quite preparing to see, but were not immune to. The determination and long term goals of each had long since been compromised and their morales were declining.



Brendan stayed around town and frequented the basement aside from his parent's garage. He had grown to adjust to the independence he had long hoped for, but never expected--particularly in the fashion in which it was first introduced months prior. At a New Year's Eve party took out to the patio at Dennis's apartment, an epiphany struck Brendan Rainer, two years removed from his five-year plight of early class, 3am pizza deliveries and the occasional practical joke by his hallway mates. He had come to realize that would likely never happen again, though he could still sing a mean Tom Petty song using a beer bottle as a microphone when playing guitar that night.



Looking back at that time of a college grad's life where the fun and glory of finding yourself on your own, 8 months at a time proved to be overly gratuitous and sentimental. Things would not be the same for either but then there were the inevitabilities of getting older that was also on deck in their own ambiguous agendas.



Then again, there is always grad school.



Can anyone give me an assessment of my short story?

I read up to the "complimentary parting prize" comment and I have to say it's pretty good but here are a few things I thought were off about the story. first, the evening sky shouldn't be described as tangerine....it sounds like it's raining fruit. I know you mean it's a beautiful evening but try something like shades of copper and violet or something more resembling orange.



The comment about "Ellie-fish" is a bit of an awkward moment. It has nothing to do with these girls going into the social club. Maybe if she were sitting at the bar reflecting on her mother's advice or something you can bring up the mother's comment of "Ellie-fish out in the big pond" but it comes out as being appropos of nothing where you have it now.



I like the story, I'd read more.



Now, when you were describing Brendan before we meet his parents, I thought you said he was the first born son. then you say he's the middle child when his parents tell him get out. I thought the way you described where he was sleeping was a bit awkward. it seemed like he was living at home then he shows up at the front door with laundry? this passage"{semi-combed hair carrying a heaping helping of a month's worth of wardrobe"} sounds sort of like the hair is carrying his laundry. That's impossible, yes, but it is a bit awkward in the phrasing.



Can anyone give me an assessment of my short story?

i didn't read every word but i actually thought it was good. i didn't understand some of the long words as I'm not that smart, but from my point of view i would say " wow that's well good!"



well done...



Can anyone give me an assessment of my short story?

Interesting situation and dilemma.



OK, a perfect setting for and existential crisis at the end of one period in a young life and the beginning of the next period, but what, what did it ad up to really? We were all going, somewhere, but where, like what and why? Is there a way to tie this experience up and in a way that pointed us to the next phase?



Each of the individuals in the story is going through the same sense of being lost, of losing their way, or losing sight of the path or goal. What was the path? Where are you, and where are you going?



So the names are different, but the experience is the same, an overpowering sense of change and being compelled to move on to the next phase without any inner sense of what the next step could or should be.



Without a strong purpose or goal, the next step seems to be going on to grad school. Maybe the grad school is the time when you find your bearings and decide who and what you are and were you are going.



Instead of allowing the parents, school, the counselors or the way of life answer these question, make it a goal for it yourself to figure out how to form a goal and ascertain a desired destination direction. Maybe something like this is the answer to your stories dilemmas.



It is important that not only the story teller, but all the people in the story are struggling with the same sense of confusion or need to know where they are and what they are doing and why.



Good story!

Is this a case of Karma or just bad luck?

My friend was making fun of his girl Emily's head, calling her a bald eagle and other names because of the hairstyle she did when we went clubbing. (She shaved all her hair off except for a strip she made into a mohawk, and then put stars and hearts along the sides of her head.



The girl was really embaressed in the group of friends and really won't go out now until it grows short enough to be turned into a cute do.



My friend who did the teasing, dyed her hair last week and lost a bit of hair, and now this week she tried to stop two kids from fighting and got strands of her hair pulled.



I'm trying to soothe her but now she's going crazy saying that Emily wished bad on her, and so she's getting the Karma for teasing her.



What d you think, I told her it was a coincidence, but I have to admit, two hair fall out sessions in so short time....what do you think?



Is this a case of Karma or just bad luck?

I strongly believe in Karma and I think this is a good example. Don't tell your friend that it was a total coincidence, because she won't learn how to become a better person that way. The golden rule is "treat others how you would want to be treated." She should let this be a lesson to herself and apologize to Emily.



Is this a case of Karma or just bad luck?

karma... sometimes it comes around quickly!



Is this a case of Karma or just bad luck?

tell her; welcome to the real world, get over it



Is this a case of Karma or just bad luck?

Girl, that is straight up karma. I'm not supersticious or anything but.... Mother Karma Bites booty (i love that show, My Name Is Earl)



Is this a case of Karma or just bad luck?

Your friend seems to be making excuses and blaming Emily for it. It will take tact and honesty for you to confront her with the possibility that the karma is returning.



Is this a case of Karma or just bad luck?

what goes around comes around .



Is this a case of Karma or just bad luck?

Have you ever heard "You reap what you sow?"



I have always found that whatever you criticize about someone comes back to you.



She is getting what she criticized about another person.



So, no, it is not bad karma.

Hey guys, would u date a girl like me? i want to know if im the type guys want to date.?

i love snowboarding, and im an artist. i can cook and bake, i get a kick out of horror flicks, i listen to emo music only, i love dogs and kids. i have green-brown eyes, and curly black hair. whaddya think?



Hey guys, would u date a girl like me? i want to know if im the type guys want to date.?

you sound really great



i truly hope you and shy guy work up the courage to talk to each other



Hey guys, would u date a girl like me? i want to know if im the type guys want to date.?

Every things ok except for the emo part....just as long as you dont slice your wrists you sound fine



Hey guys, would u date a girl like me? i want to know if im the type guys want to date.?

u sound like a kick @$$ chick!!!!!!! I LOVE snowboarding, punk rock/emo music/The Used kinda stuff too



Hey guys, would u date a girl like me? i want to know if im the type guys want to date.?

I am sure a lot of guys would want to date you. You are very active and guys like that.



Hey guys, would u date a girl like me? i want to know if im the type guys want to date.?

if I wasn't with someone, I'd totally ask you out rite now.



Hey guys, would u date a girl like me? i want to know if im the type guys want to date.?

well from what you say, you sound good like an interesting enough girl to me but you also have to have a great personality to go along with it because if your a total jerk nobody will come near you.



Hey guys, would u date a girl like me? i want to know if im the type guys want to date.?

You sound great (apart from the emo bit).



Hey guys, would u date a girl like me? i want to know if im the type guys want to date.?

You sound interesting but i have yet to see you in person..(grooming, nice smile..etc..) Also, you have to have pleasant personality to go hand in hand with your seemingly adventurous character.And by the way in regards to emo,hhmm..not really

Please help, my daughter has fleas (no joke)?

My kids came home from my inlaws where they stayed the night. About an hour later I put her in the tub and she started calling me because there were fleas in the water. Some were up the side like they were trying to run. My mother in law has had fleas for a long time. They don't really care to get rid of them though. I have even bought her flea drops for her dog and my kids say she throws it away. She doesn't have carpet, so they must be bad. I have never seen such a thing. Now I worry that they are in my daughters hair (shes only six yrs old) or may have got in my house, carpet, etc. Also, when my mother in law visits she may carry them in herself. If my kids had them from 24 hours of visiting then she obviously does. How can I make sure they aren't in my house or on my daughter? I tried the lamp and water trick any other serious suggestions would be appreciated.



Please help, my daughter has fleas (no joke)?

#1 - You should not be letting your kids go near your mother in law's house if you KNOW she has a flea infestation! #2 - You should not allow your mother in law to visit you if she's bringing fleas in YOUR HOME with her. If your in laws see no need to get rid of them they need some serious help and you can start by not allowing your children over to her house or her over to yours.



Now, you need to get your vacuum and go to town! Under the couches behind shelves, closets, everywhere. Throw away the vacuum bag immediately after your done.



Shame on your mother in law for living like that and for subjecting her grandchildren and pets to it.



Please help, my daughter has fleas (no joke)?

get some of the flea drops and rub over the door step and such , i just treated my cats and it killed all the fleas in the carpet.



Please help, my daughter has fleas (no joke)?

they're so tiny i don't know how to help....but i have A suggestion....but a flee calor in your vaccum...that way they cant come out alive and vaccume the entire house,.....also see if you can convice your daughter that your giving her a new necklace when your really giving her a flee calor...but yeah search around on yahoo...and see what comes up...sorry i cant help more...good luck!!



Please help, my daughter has fleas (no joke)?

Flea Bombs help. Their is a special type of shampoo that can be used for humans, as I had such experiance. I dont know where to go for shampoo. But the flea bomb I think you can get at a pet store.



Please help, my daughter has fleas (no joke)?

Get this product by Raid. Flea and tick defogger. You'll need 1 or 2 cans depending on how big your house is, put it in the center of your home and the fog will spread through out the house. Nobody should be home when you do this. You may have to repeat in about a week if it's really bad. It worked great for me. Read the instructions carefully before using though.



Please help, my daughter has fleas (no joke)?

wash everything and spray all the walls of your house at the base by the carpets with flea killer. Bathe your daughter and watch for signs that she still has the fleas (flea bites!).



Please help, my daughter has fleas (no joke)?

Just stick her in the tub, and let her lie back with her hair in the tub. They'll drown. If there's some in your carpet, you need to set off some flea bombs while you're out of the house, that will do it. I came home from vacation one time, and our cat evidently had fleas and they multiplied while we were out. My two kids walked in and were instantly covered all over their legs. I threw them in the tub, washed the fleas off, and set some bug bombs that evening (we slept in a motel). The next day the fleas were totally gone and never came back. You can find these "bombs" at Walmart. They are cans of insect killer that you set in the middle of your room and press down on the trigger and the "sauce" gets squirted into the air. The cans give very good directions for use. You'll need one for each of the main rooms in your house.



Please help, my daughter has fleas (no joke)?

about the carpet and the house, get a raid flea bomb. about your daughter get some head lice shampoo. that could help. if it don't get some cat flea shampoo.

Julia Gillard and Kevin Rudd....lame?

1st Julia



if you dont know her she's australias deputy prime minister



1. she has red hair



2. shes like 50 and never had kids i.e deliberatly baron



3. she talks like a whiney bogan



4. she is female and has "prime minister" in her title (i just threw up a little)



australians who know her do you agree that she is annoying. she has no significant political experience and was incharge of the country for a week while the lamest p.m ever was out of the country



while where talking about him...who thinks that kevin rudd will make a good p.m or any predictions on what he will do to or for the country



Julia Gillard and Kevin Rudd....lame?

lame to the O's



......



Julia Gillard and Kevin Rudd....lame?

Both look like government insiders. Don't expect too much innovation or real leadership.

Ladies what do you think about being with a guy like me ?

im 21 6'8 of mucles not skinny or fat.i have a phd im a male modle and look just like my avatar but with longer hair.i have a house i have some new born twins whose mother hates me.i have a 2 year old who vists me alot. all the neighborhood kids have a key to my house becaues my hair keeps going on fire and some parents think i ned someone to wacth me.alot of my exs come over alot i kiss every one on the lips hello %26amp; goodbye.im told i can be sweet when im not acking like a hothead or being a jerk, im just a little clumsy.



would you be with me if i wernt already taken ?



oh %26amp; also im the gaurdian of a 16 year old who i baely met a couple weeks ago who thinks im a jackass.



Ladies what do you think about being with a guy like me ?

You have too much baggage. I wouldn't consider dating a guy who has too much of that.



Ladies what do you think about being with a guy like me ?

hmm....... too twisted... i wouldn't go for a guy like you.....



Ladies what do you think about being with a guy like me ?

Honestly if your a guy like discrible in the list below, I'd say I'd think about dating you.~alison~



12) Someone who holds your hand whenever possible.



11) Puts his arms around your waist and whispers in your ear.



10) Kisses you every chance he gets.



9) Holds you close when your cold.



8) When you are alone-holds you close and KISSES you.



7) Kisses you on the tip of your nose (it will give you the hint that he wants to kiss you.)



6) While in the movies, puts his arm around you and then you'll automatically put your head on his shoulder then he'll lean in and tilt your chin and kiss you lightly.



5) When you complain that your neck hurts he'll massage it for you.



4) When people diss you he stands up for you.



3) Looks deep into your eyes and TELLS you he loves you or that you are adorable.



2) Lays down under the stars with you and puts your head on his chest so you can listen to the steady beat of his heart and link your fingers together while he whispers to you as you rest your eyes and listen to his voice.



1) Open all doors for you (it makes you feel so special!!!)



Ladies what do you think about being with a guy like me ?

Nothing you have said suggests that you are mature enough to be raising children. You are a good example of why people should be required to get a license to become parents. You say you have a PhD, but you can't even spell or write a gramatically correct sentence. Even if you did look like your avatar, I would not want you.



Ladies what do you think about being with a guy like me ?

I think you are a liar. Sorry, you asked.



Ladies what do you think about being with a guy like me ?

Your not the kind of guy I'd be interested in if I were single, you brag a bit much as far as I'm concerned and for some reason I doubt a lot of what you say. People that have don't tell in most cases. Or it could be (I guess) your immaturity coming through.



Ladies what do you think about being with a guy like me ?

I think you need professional help.



Ladies what do you think about being with a guy like me ?

Actually I like your sense of humor! It's not everyone who can laugh at themselves and be comfortable about it. 6' 8"? Yum! I hope that you can work things out and find happiness. Enjoy your children because they love you unconditionally. You're still young and it sounds like you have a lot going for you. So I suppose the answer to your question would be yes.



Ladies what do you think about being with a guy like me ?

honestly no offense but no



Ladies what do you think about being with a guy like me ?

Um You sound kinda cool and funny! Probly I would have to get to no you better, but I dont know about the kids all having a key to ur apartment! lol

To adopt small female dog?

i want female small dog that get along with kids or children. and train in house. short hair .



To adopt small female dog?

Are you asking if you should adopt a small female dog? Or what kind of dog to adopt? Or where to get one? I am confused and I cannot help you....



To adopt small female dog?

shitzu's are great dogs with kids.



To adopt small female dog?

you could look at your local animal control the humane society or www.petfinder.com



To adopt small female dog?

if ur asking what dog would be best for that then i would say a pug all the way..they are the most loving dogs and are the cutest dogs in the world. my pug puppy is the sweetest and gets along with us perfectly.



To adopt small female dog?

I'd check out petfinder.com and search for shelters and rescues in your area. You can search by breed. However, I'd look at the various rescues and shelters and see if any of them look more appealing to you than others.



Once you apply with the rescue or shelter, they will ask you numerous questions about your lifestyle, likes, dislikes etc. and then then will match a dog to that lifestyle.



If they don't ask you lots of questions and try and push a dog on you, go to another rescue.



Most reputable shelters and rescues will work very hard to find exactly the right dog for your family. It's hard to tell you what the right breed would be without talking to you. Let the rescue in your area help you. That's what they do and I promise you, there are excellent, trained, knowledgeble people out there who will find the perfect dog for your family.



Like I said, if they don't ask you lots of questions, move on to the next rescue. There are 100s. And don't be discouraged by the dogs they have on their site at any given time. Shelters get new dogs daily.



You should be able to bring your children to meet the dog too!



Good luck and I hope you adopt soon!



To adopt small female dog?

I definitely reccommend researching the website for different small breeds. I agree that Shih Tzu's can be very good with children. Jack Russels can as well but can be very hyper. It kind of depends on what acitivities you want to do with the job... Do you want one that can go everywhere with you and the kids or stay at home.



I reccommend visiting your local shelter/spca/humane society. They have staff and volunteers there that are very familiar with the dogs that are up for adoption. They can find one that fits your lifestyle. They are constantly getting new dogs and sometimes it takes awhile but it is worth it in the end. Calling isn't always the best thing... they are usually under-staffed so don't return phone calls right away. Also, some dogs are adopted the same day it was brought in. I definitely say visit... then you can take your children and see if the dog gets a long with them.



To adopt small female dog?

Look at a Miniature Pincher. They may not be particularly "cute" by some peoples standards they are however hansom. They will never bite a child but the owner must be mindful that their legs are tall and thin. Small children may play roughly and damage or break one of their legs. It takes weeks to train them. Once they are trained there will be no mistakes.They look similar to a Doberman Pincher however they are not related at all. They are a very old German breed of dog from the 1600's. They're supposedly a mix of the German Pincher and Italian Greyhound. They are an eleven pound "mighty mite". They'll stand their ground to any dog and are protective of their owners. Not as a fighting dog but they can hear strangers 50 feet away. They'll bark until the stranger is seated in your home. Three minutes later there in the persons lap kissing his or hre face.

A rather embarassing situation with my 6 year old PLEASE HELP?

Earlier today I had put my 6 year old in the bath and left her to play after washing her hair so that I could go and see to my other kids and when I went back to tell her it was time to get out she was urrrmmm well pleasuring herself (i am trying to be tactfull here). I asked ehr what she was doing and she said its nice then I told her to stop it and get out the bath and I dried her hair and down her back then gave her the towl and told her to go finish getting dried and get dressed and when I went in her room to check to make sure she was getting dressed she was well doing what she had been doing in the bath again. I have been trying to think of a way all day that I can apporach her to discuss this but I cant figure out how to go to go to her with it as I am pretty embarassed by it so can someone suggest a way that worked for you that I might be able to try.



This is the first time I have been in this situation with my kids



A rather embarassing situation with my 6 year old PLEASE HELP?

OK, first of all, you need to realize that even if this is "normal" behavior, it is problematic behavior. Any behavior that causes tension between young children and their parents is a big problem. If she were twelve to sixteen, I would approach this differently, but she's six, and for her well being you need to keep things open, but not by allowing this to continue.



At this stage, you need to worry about your relationship with your daughter, not about 'stunting her sexual growth' (she's 6, not 20), because a child who has relationship problems at a young age is at a severe risk for developing Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), a very serious disorder that can lead to very serious consequences, inluding the more sever Attachment Disorder (AD), which is the most common link between serial killers. (For those who doubt this, or wish to call me a 'panicker,' send me an e-mail and I will give you my sources, all of which come from qualified professionals)



So those are the risks of putting yourself in an uncomfortable situation that obviously bugs--even if your child never develops RAD, you will still have a gap because you feel the need to clam up and let things develop.



Obviously this is not a desirable outcome, so you should explain to her that 'touching herself' is not an appropriate behavior and she should not do it. Remember that you are the parent, and your child needs to obey you. You need not tolerate repeated disobedience from her.



On the other hand, you could allow her to keep on 'touching herself' for fear of stunting her sexual growth, creating an enormous rift when she is older and more wise about sex. You should know that hormones don't ever, ever help with how we handle sex when we're older. Hormones don't have anything to do with sexual exploration after you're six years old--don't you know that?!? And you should know that it is absolutely not true that children find out about sex from friends and schoolmates--it has never happened and never will (it never happened when you were little, did it?), so you as the parent are absolutely required to explain the intimate details of sex and sexual relationships... obviously. If you do not do this, it is certain that your 6-year-old, who knows nothing about sex, will hate you forever and ever and ever and ever... and ever...



If there's anybody who didn't catch the sarcasm, I was being sarcastic!



But, seriously, she's 6, if you tell your child not to 'pleasure herself,' there aren't going to be some long term, horrible consequences. My parents did it, and I enjoy my sex life today. They also did it to all of my siblings, and a whopping eight of them are old enough to be sure that their sex life is not adversly effected. I have many friends who were raised in homes where sex was not acceptable, and very few of them have any problems today, and none of them have STDs.



So, right now, it's more important that this doesn't become a splinter between you and your daughter. And she will have a much easier time stopping her actions than you will your emotions.



A rather embarassing situation with my 6 year old PLEASE HELP?

That is normal behaviour, do not worry.



A rather embarassing situation with my 6 year old PLEASE HELP?

Let her know that it's perfectly normal to touch her self, and that it's acceptable to do only when she has privacy.



Shaming her about her genitals will scar her for life...so make sure she's ready to have this talk and if she's not...don't worry about it yet.



If she is, get a book that explains (on her level) what that part is and what it does.



No big deal Momma!



A rather embarassing situation with my 6 year old PLEASE HELP?

Sexual explorations is absolutely natural with children (and adults!)........but just so you know sexually abused kids know more and explore more then non-exposed kids......not to make you terrified..just informed.



A rather embarassing situation with my 6 year old PLEASE HELP?

First off, relax. Masturbation is completely normal. Kids much younger than your daughter even learn that doing things to their bodies feels good. That's part of developing. Don't keep freaking out at your daughter, you'll give her issues. Sexuality is a part of all of our lives. You can either teach her how it can be a healthy part, or you can teach her the unhealthy way. It's not something either of you need to be embarrassed about. Let her know that what she is doing is okay, as long as she does it in private.



A rather embarassing situation with my 6 year old PLEASE HELP?

i had the same prob with my 9 yr old but she was 4 at the time, i just talked to her about inappropriate touching and what others with think if they see her, and its not nice and i explained it in a way so i could continue the conversaition in a few years, and i also threw in the "noone else should ever touch there" while i was on the topic



A rather embarassing situation with my 6 year old PLEASE HELP?

Wow, I dont know, that is a tough one.........



But it is rather normal for kids to be curios about their own bodies, you should just try to explain that she should no be doing that, tell her its like saying a bad word, she just should not do it



you also may wanna find out where she learned that from, with her only being six, It probably came from someone, maybe someone at school, (kids grow too fast) and possibaly and i hope not from an adult, ask her how she learned to do that...........



Good luck



A rather embarassing situation with my 6 year old PLEASE HELP?

Wow...6 years old and already embarrasing dad! ;) I'm not looking forward to that at all...



I think this is pretty normal. Although, my first question to her would be if anyone had ever touched her there before...or if she found it out on her own. A though question, but one that needs to be asked.



I'm not sure how you would explain to her that it is inappropriate at her age, without making her feel ashamed of herself.



A rather embarassing situation with my 6 year old PLEASE HELP?

It's totally normal and age appropriate for her to be doing this. You should tell her that it's normal to do this but she needs to make sure she's alone (which it sounds like she has been doing). As long as you're to the point and calm about it, not making it into a big deal, she won't either. What you don't want to do is try to get her to stop doing it, or make her feel bad about it in any way. This could possibly give her bad feelings about her own sexuality. Just make sure she doesn't flaunt what she's doing and it'll resolve itself!



A rather embarassing situation with my 6 year old PLEASE HELP?

Hi, Jason.



It's best if you knock on the bathroom door, from this point on. Ask your daughter if she is out of the tub, drying herself off. Give her the privacy she deserves, and obviously needs.



If you over-react and make a big deal out of this, she will learn to feel shame for it. It is a natural part of life, although there is no set age for this to take place.



My son was doing this in the bath and I simply left the room and started the "knocking" principle. It taught him the bathroom is a place for privacy. It taught me to respect that privacy. After all, we are not changing their diapers anymore.



There is no instruction manual on how to react or handle things like this. In my experience, don't give this any more attention than you need to. If she starts doing this in public, you have reason to get concerned.



good luck ~



A rather embarassing situation with my 6 year old PLEASE HELP?

Swee Tie s advice is very good- spot on. I would go with that one.



A rather embarassing situation with my 6 year old PLEASE HELP?

Since she is so young, I think you should tell her that it's okay to "pleasure herself" but it's something she should do by herself. Just make sure she understands it's okay but must be done in private =]



A rather embarassing situation with my 6 year old PLEASE HELP?

Normal. You can't deny it feels good. They don't equate it to sex or anything like that, they just know it feels good.



At her age, though, the best thing you can do is to let her know that there is a time and a place for everything, and she should wait to explore herself until she's in her bedroom and has some time to herself.



If you overreact, like everything else, it will pique her curiosity and make her more likely to continue doing it, as well as give her a complex about it being "dirty" or "bad".



A rather embarassing situation with my 6 year old PLEASE HELP?

Kids are naturally curious about their bodies. even thought she's not old enough to get sexual pleasure from what she's doing, it does feel good to her.



I don't know if she's the youngest, maybe she caught one of the older girls doing that or heard them talking about it.



You can talk to the little one about it without getting into details. Ask her why she does it, where did she learn it from, and shoudl only be done at home in private. Got to make sure she understands not to do it at school or other people's homes(like visiting a friend for play dates).



A rather embarassing situation with my 6 year old PLEASE HELP?

Just explain to her that it is an okay and natural thing to touch herself. But that it is something that is private and not to do it in front of others.



A rather embarassing situation with my 6 year old PLEASE HELP?

Tell her it is OK to do that as long as your in your bedroom and by yourself. It a normal thing, but should be done in private.



A rather embarassing situation with my 6 year old PLEASE HELP?

Take this fact in:It's completely normal



But, sit her down and tell her that it is completely normal to do that, but ONLY in her room or bathroom, only when no one is around.



NEVER, I repeat NEVER make her feel any level of negitive response for this. Because, if you do, consider your daugher ruined. Ruined from everything. She probly won't want to be around any other person because private parts are bad. Givving her that idea, she might even take it to a very bad level. I help my theripist out a lot, and there was a small kid about 8 who was caough masturbating and he was cough the next day with a pair of sciccors you know wear, thankfully he started crying before he actually hurt himself badly. I think I just about cried when I heard that. Your daugher is doing something as normal as breathing, so please don't be alarmed.



A rather embarassing situation with my 6 year old PLEASE HELP?

firstly - dont worry yes its embarassing but only for you as she has no idea that she is doing anything that might cause offence - bear in mind that young boys seem to spend their first 7 years with one hand up their nose and the other down their shorts



next just say that some things need to be done in certain places - you pee in the loo, cook in the kitchen and you pray in church and some part of her body are just for her to know



In all probabilty she just discovered that if she did it then it felt nice - the chances of anyone suggesting or showing her is small and we must as parents balance this hysteria regards child abuse. It does happen and is un defenceable when it does but kids have been touching themselves and showing what they have got to other kids since time began.



Lastly take a deep breath - this is my most important childcare tip. No one died , no one was hurt and yes it makes you feel uncomfortable but so long as the communcation channels are always open your kids will always look to you for advice.If you dont know where to start commence the conversation and tell your child that you are unsure what to say but youd like them to know that they did is ok but shouldnt be carried out in public because it could make other feel uneasy



Just bear in mind there is always the possibilty that you will walk in on her having sex in 10 years time



yes it has happened to me both situations and all my kids are just normal people - what happened to you is an unfortuante reminder that one day your little girl is going to grow up and you are the one that has to deal with that fact she will be far to busy living her new and exciting life to think of poor old dads feelings - good luck and it is really lovely to see a dad so involved in his daughters life and growth



A rather embarassing situation with my 6 year old PLEASE HELP?

dont you do it? doesnt it feel nice? she just needs to learn as she grows that it isnt something you do in public. leave her alonepoor little love or leave the room, shes hardly going to whip out a dildo shes just discovering her body. or of course you could punish and highlight and she ll have a life long fear of sex and pleasure?



A rather embarassing situation with my 6 year old PLEASE HELP?

Well kids do the darndest things. lol. Tell her that she shouldn't be touching her self down there because it's yucky. She might not understand and continue this. Shes young and thats all you could really tell her. =)



Ok people so you can't just tell the kid to keep touching herself. If she is in public or at someones house, and she does it, the parents can get into serious trouble if someone reports her behavior. It's true and happens to plenty of parents. If you tell the child it's yucky (a word they understand) they will be less likely to do it and far less likely to do it in public. Would you touch yourself in pubic? Wouldn't you feel embarressed? You don't want the child to get that talk from someone else who might make her and even the parents feel bad about themselves!



A rather embarassing situation with my 6 year old PLEASE HELP?

i would explain to her that it isn't the right thing to do when you are a 6 year old, then try and take her mind of it. It may possibly be a fad and after awhile she will grow out of it.



little lads also dot he same thing but with my son I just told him that it would fall off and after a bit he stopped.



If you are still unsure what to say and how to approach her then try contacting parent line and they may be able to advise you. What may seem embarrassing to you they may have heard a dozen or so times.



Good luck with everything and I hope things work out OK.



A rather embarassing situation with my 6 year old PLEASE HELP?

there is a lot of scare mongering in the answers for this question, just because your daughter has discovered her genitals doesnt mean that someone has touched her so please dont pay too much attention to this, all kids discover there is a tickle down there, my one year old has found it, its natural.



as for talking about sex with a six year old, dont, there is no need for a child to find out too much about it, there is a time but that time is not when you kid is still sooo young.



the best way to deal with it is to explain that it is not polite to touh yourself like that or that its dirty to touch there. it wont scar her mentally it will just put her off it.



tell you what though, im not looking foward to this stuff myself, good luck



A rather embarassing situation with my 6 year old PLEASE HELP?

well let her mom or grandma talk to her about it, it may be more comfortable for the child and you



A rather embarassing situation with my 6 year old PLEASE HELP?

I think this is kind of sweet that she has found her tickle between her legs. My mom helped me find mine when I was 10 because I walked in on her accidentally doing it, I asked her what she was doing and she just went jump on the bed and I will teach you so I did and she did and now I really enjoy my tickle

Am I the only one that doesn't want everybody to be mixed in the future?

I DONT want everyone to be mixed in the future. I think it's stupid. And things would be more boring. I like people being different races. It makes everyone more unique and makes things more diverse. It'd be so boring if everyone had the same hair, skin type, etc. Why do you think people in places in japan are constantly dying their hair instead of keeping their black hair? Because none of them want to look the same. They want to stand out. Same is BORING. Yeah I don't mind there being mixed kids but I don't want everyone to be mixed. Does anyone agree?



Am I the only one that doesn't want everybody to be mixed in the future?

you read my mind. I'm not the only one who sees things like it is. It's going to be so boring. I hope I'm not alive then



watch moo all the thumb downs i get



Am I the only one that doesn't want everybody to be mixed in the future?

I like variety. Don't worry, we won't all be mixed in the future.



1. When people start to realize that the chinese and native africans have no interest in race mixing, then others will gain a racial awareness.



2. Human genetics work so that you can have 100 mixed race people, but enough selective breeding can recreate all three major races in a few generations.



3. Major mixed races, like the hispanics and arabs, practice racial discrimination amongst themselves. Think caste system.



Am I the only one that doesn't want everybody to be mixed in the future?

The idea of mixing and all getting along is nice, but I agree, I like variety and belonging to a certain group.



Am I the only one that doesn't want everybody to be mixed in the future?

ppl are going to mix raices regardles of boundries and what you say .. im mixed (spanish Muslim, Mexican and Native American) but that who i am but i do agree with you diveritys is kinda fun its waht makes us all interesting



Am I the only one that doesn't want everybody to be mixed in the future?

I'd better not have any kids then, because my wife is Chinese!



Am I the only one that doesn't want everybody to be mixed in the future?

And it's places like Japan that has signs that says Japanese Only or Non-whites Only or Whites Not allowed. Hooray further racism.



But I wouldn't worry about everybody looking the same. That's too extreme of a scenario.

New school out fit!?!?!?

Anyone want to make a first day of school outfit?



Im going into 8th grade. my style is preppy and like stores like...



Hollister



abercrombie kids



ae



ect



also what should i do for hair and make upand accessories??



I have green eyes and light brown thick hair...THANKS!!!



New school out fit!?!?!?

I will just choose a bunch of clothes that I would wear. I am going into eighth grade, have a preppy style, and shop at the same stores. Hope we have similar taste in style! Here it goes:



Outfit #1:



Shirt (in pink):



http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/st...



Skirt:



http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/st...



Undershirt (in white):



http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/st...



Shoes (in pink):



http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/st...



Bag:



http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/st...



Shirt:



http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/st...



Skirt (the second option):



http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/st...



Shoes (in navy blue):



http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/st...



Bag:



http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/st...



Outfit #3:



Shirt: (in turquoise):



http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/st...



Pants:



http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/st...



Tank Top (in light blue):



http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/st...



Shoes (in blue):



http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/st...



Bag:



http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/st...



Outfit #4:



Shirt (in red):



http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp...



Pants:



http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp...



Tank Top (in white):



http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp...



Shoes:



http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp...



Bag:



http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp...



Outfit #5:



Shirt:



http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp...



Skirt:



http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp...



Tank Top (in white):



http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp...



Shoes (tan):



http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp...



Bag (in brown):



http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp...



Outfit #6:



Shirt (in white):



http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp...



Pants:



http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp...



Shoes:



http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp...



Bag (blue):



http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp...



Outfit #7:



Shirt (in yellow):



http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp...



Pants:



http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wc...



Shoes (in yellow):



http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wc...



Bag (yellow):



http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wc...



Outfit #8:



Shirt (in light pink):



http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wc...



Skirt:



http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wc...



Shoes (in pink):



http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wc...



Bag:



http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wc...



Outfit #9:



Shirt (in green):



http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wc...



Shorts:



http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wc...



Shoes (in green):



http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wc...



Bag:



http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wc...



Outfit #10:



Shirt (in black and white):



http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?cat...



Pants:



http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?cat...



Shoes:



http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/ref...



Bag (in white):



http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/st...



Hope you like the outfits!



New school out fit!?!?!?

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for your hair if its curly, straighten it and leave it down



and for make-up dont over do it maybe just some lip gloss, eyeliner, and mascara



New school out fit!?!?!?

the headbands that tie and hang to the side are really cute and stylish



a cute shirt from hollisters with matching flip flops



and abercrombie knee link shorts with holes



that would be super cute :)



oh maybe you should add a anklet and toe rings to match your other jewelry



:)



New school out fit!?!?!?

i made a few of these for myself, but you might like them =] enjoy! %26lt;33



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New school out fit!?!?!?

go to one of your fav stores. get some jeans that fit you. then ask if they have any cute graphic t's. top it off with some samll dangly earings, and flip flops. leave your hair down and straight, and natural makeup. put in a solid color headband that matches your outfit!



you are good to go!



hope i helped! have fun!



New school out fit!?!?!?

i will. hold up.....



New school out fit!?!?!?

Ok well you seem like me so this is easy-



-pinkish eyeshadow it accentuates ur green



-umm u should do a wavy updo for ue thick hair



-Ok do cool like pastel plaidish bermudas from AE



-SEE if u can find a roxy top anyone is good- they sell themm at like marshalls and stuff real roxy



-then do either ballet flats or u know those vans shoes that zac efron always wears get white with designs



-and finally for accessories keep it simple with a long necklace



i know all this because i work @ teen vogue as an intern i get to see all the fall fashions so get ahead with these styles!



New school out fit!?!?!?

cute for first day of school..



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New school out fit!?!?!?

cami:http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp...



shirt:http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wc...



bottoms: http://www.aeropostale.com/product/index...



shoes:http://www.journeys.com/catalog_detail.a...



accessories:http://www.buckle.com/product/product_de...



hair: loose pigtail braids



makeup: light green eyeshadow, brown eyeliner, mascara



New school out fit!?!?!?

Try This Hairstyles:



http://www.curly-hair-styles-magazine.co...



Try doing blonde highlights or made a bright red!



______________________________________...



Seascape:



http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/st...



First Point:



http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/st...



Colored Plastic Bangle:



http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?cat...



(In Green and Red)



Triple Strand Necklace:



http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?cat...



______________________________________...



AE Sunshine Tunic:



http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp...



AE Boyfriend Tank:



http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp...



AE Artist Stretch Jean:



http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp...



AE Eyelet Ballet Flat:



http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp...



AE Free As A Bird Necklace:



http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp...



AE Natural Leaf Bracelet:



http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp...

What kind of dog should i get?

I like athletic dogs, that are good with kids, like being outdoors or indoors, will not leave a lot of hair everywhere, and is very obedient.



What kind of dog should i get?

you only get obedient if you are willing to put in the time and effort to train the dog. there are no push button dogs out there unless you get one of the little mechanical dogs. that might be it,it would be good with kids,doesn't shed and is obedient.



if you want a real dog you need to find a breed that fits your life style and research the breed/breeds fully. you know better what will fit in with your family. go to the site below and look at the breeds and descriptions or go to a shelter or more than one and look at what they have and save a dogs life.



What kind of dog should i get?

Siberian Huskey



i have one... here is his picture:



http://flickr.com/photos/skittlez4449/21...



(hes not really growling.. he just is playing.. he doesnt like his pic taken..haha)



What kind of dog should i get?

maybe get a German Shepard



What kind of dog should i get?

go to your local humane society and look for one there.. I bet you can find just what you're looking for. The volunteers there are happy to help you find your perfect match.. They are already spayed/neutered, they are up to date on their shots, the volunteers can tell you about their personality, temperments and if they are trained. You can save a life and gain a lifetime companion!!



What kind of dog should i get?

Siberean Husky, Golden Retreiver, OR a yorkshire terrior, They are great!



I have lots of dogs :)



What kind of dog should i get?

believe it or not...a pitbull....but if you are ignorant to that breed like many are then maybe boxer...or a german short hair...or beagal??????????



What kind of dog should i get?

LABRADOODLE!!! the lab in them make them incredibly sweet and the poodle make them hypo-allergenic. also very obediant. check 'em out in the local paper or online



hope you make a great choice!



What kind of dog should i get?

LABRADOODLE!!! the lab in them make them incredibly sweet and the poodle make them hypo-allergenic. also very obediant. check 'em out in the local paper or online



hope you make a great choice!



What kind of dog should i get?

get a lab.



they're WONDERFUL with children, and are very athletic, high energy dogs, and are wonderful companions.



the only thing that labs do not fit in your requirements is the shedding, they do shed a lot, but honestly it's not that bad if you vaccumm regularly and use lint rollers.



also, you can teach your dog not to get on the furniture (they're very intelligent.)



i'm sure you'll find one at a shelter.



(they can come in 3 colors, yellow, chocolate, or black, so don't think they're different breeds if you didn't know.)



What kind of dog should i get?

the type you admire



What kind of dog should i get?

I have a Miniature Schnauzer and she is great %26amp; smart. I had a male previously and he adored kids and he was really smart. They don't shed much either. They are definitely athletic dogs. Good luck in your puppy search.



What kind of dog should i get?

If you are not sure what breed to get then maybe you should look through the site for the AKC they have information on all the breeds. www.AKC.org.



Pick a few breeds that you like and do a little research on them, look up a few breeders online and ask them a few question about the breed, they should be more then happy to help you get answers.



What kind of dog should i get?

Buy a Greyhound. They are the absolute best.



What kind of dog should i get?

well i think you should get a norfolk terrior im getting one for my birthday



What kind of dog should i get?

Husky, German Shep, Boxer, Beagle, Shiba Inu, Lab or like the one above me a labradoodle (great dog).....



great dogs...i work with these dogs at a pet store and they act the best



What kind of dog should i get?

I think you should get a yellow lab or a golden retriever they are great with kids. i used to have one but we moved and had to get rid of her. =(



What kind of dog should i get?

Rescue a dog from the shelter. Mutts make the best pets!



What kind of dog should i get?

Pit bulls thy are grate.



What kind of dog should i get?

Get a Chihuahua they are the best. They are small and good for traveling. Also they are very obidient and easy to handle.



GET ONE NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



What kind of dog should i get?

Well i have loved dogs my whole life and know a lot about them.



there are golden retrievers(i have 1), they're great dogs except they shed alot. great danes dont shed much, but i dont know about the kid part, you would have to buy a great dane pup so that the puppy could get used to the kids. you could also get a bulldog but again you'd prolly have to get a pup 'cuz of the kids.

Can I grow a bit more?

justed turned 19 and have grown like an almost 3/4 of an inch in the past year. However my growth as always kind of been steady, during my growth spurt I grew a little over 2 inches. I grew almost 3/4 of an inch since last year. Can I push out 5'11 1/2-6'0. My voice started cracking a year ago, and I have light facial hair, and chest hair starting to appear last year. I seem less developed then other kids in my opnion



Mom 5'4 1/2



Dad 6 feet



grandfather 6 feet



grandfather 6 feet



grandma 5'6 1/2



grandma 5'3, her father was 6'2, but her mom was 4'11



2 of my dads brothers are over 6 feet, one is 6'3, the other one is 5'11. my dad grandfather was 6'3-6'4.



I am 5'9 1/2, I was a little under 5'9 last year



Can I grow a bit more?

If your voice is only cracking recently then you definitely ound kinda late, although chest hair might sugget otherwise. Im same height as you but it all came on in the last 2 years; I used to be ridiulously short. Im 18 now, but because of my late schedule a lot of people think I can maybe get another 1/2 inch or so as my spurt tapers off. Because your growth pattern seems teady it's kinda hard to judge other than your family figures. It's not impossible to think that you could hit 6'0 though. Your previous year' growth certainly underlines a late growth pattern cuz it seems like your still going at a reasonable rate, so while I'm sure that it will decline I would kind of expect you to grow an inch or so more. The women in your family look like they would kinda hold you back, but I think that both of your brothers are tall, and your at least average height so if you make it to 5'10 then it looks like you've evaded the 'short' genes and you could push on to 5'11. I have a cousin who grew until he was 21 and topped out at 6'3. In short, you CAN definitely grow some more (but you might not).

My wife and I have been married for 9 years, we have 3 children?

My wife hits me and pulls my hair and even hits herself and pulls her hair when we get into an argument. The abuse is getting worse. She says the kids and I have ruined her life. Our youngest is two and she doesn't get along good with him at all. She has almost stopped cooking for everyone. She lets clothes pile up for day's and her cleaning habits are horrible. My life is a nightmare right now. She refuses to go see a therapist. I'm worried I'm going to lose my kids and they are going to suffer when the court's award her full custody. Courts are prone to giving kids to the mother here! When I try to talk to her, she immediately goes to the bedroom and cover's up her head. My argument has been that I want someone that will work with me and not against me. I want someone who will not hit me when we don't see eye to eye. I'm beginning to feel like I deserve alot better, but I don't want to destroy my life or my babies. Thanks.



My wife and I have been married for 9 years, we have 3 children?

You need to talk to a private investigator and ask that he plant some hidden cameras and microphones in your house. This is to document her behavior. Then, the next time she puts her hands on you, you CALL THE POLICE on her butt. She will no doubt blame the violence oon you when they come, and will probably point to her own self-inflicted bruises as proof. That's why you want the cameras and audio. Uunfortunately, DV issues accusing men require a guilty until proven innocent assumption. You also need to contact an attorney, and I mean ASAP!!! The longer you wait, the less credibility you will have.



Your wife is a total mess. It doesn't even sound like it is worth trying to work out. You DO deserve better, and if you don't kick her out, and soon, she will destroy your life for you. And it does your kids no good at all to watch her antics.



I feel for you, Brother. But you gotta get her out of there. Now



El Chistoso



My wife and I have been married for 9 years, we have 3 children?

Hire a divorce attorney and sue for custody. Show documentation of what your wife does.



My wife and I have been married for 9 years, we have 3 children?

if you get a female lawyer then chances are good that you wont lose



My wife and I have been married for 9 years, we have 3 children?

SECRETLY RECORD YOUR WIFES ABUSE AND VIDEO TAPE IT. TALK TO A LAWYER AFTER YOU HAVE GOT THE PROOF YOU NEED. YOUR CHILDREN ARE ALSO IN A ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR WIFE. SHE ISNT COOKING,CLEANING OR SEEING TO THEIR NEEDS AND THAT IS VERY SAD FOR ALL OF YOU. I WISH YOU THE BEST. ALSO PHOTOGRAPH THOSE PILED UP CLOTHES.



My wife and I have been married for 9 years, we have 3 children?

You have got to get her out of your life and take custody of the children before she damages them as well. Go and talk to a good attorney and plan how you are going to do this before she gets an inkling of what you are up to.



My wife and I have been married for 9 years, we have 3 children?

Google Borderline Personality Disorder and see if this is issue. IF it sounds like your life then read the book "Stop Walking on Eggshells." This will be very illuminating.



When you divorce you need to make her mental health the issue. If there is any way to get her evaluated before you separate that will help --- -once you separate and she has a lawyer, her lawyer will fight an evaluation. The court does favor mothers but it also hates abusers. Start keeping a log of the abuse....no emotion just the date, situation, and who said and did what. This will be available to you in the custody evaluation and if you have been keeping the log for awhile and consistently updating it, it will be hard for them to ignore.



I am sorry for what you are going though, it sounds similar to my fist marriage....I have custody of the kids.



Good luck.



My wife and I have been married for 9 years, we have 3 children?

YOU NEED TO EXPLAIN THIS TO THE JUDGE, period. The moment you two had children, it transcended beyond the two of you. Its all about the children now. My stepfather won soul ccustody of both his boys,(the kids from his previous marriage) and she challenged him by taking him back to court after he got back from Iraq. She only won 49% custody and the rest went to him, based on the fact that one, she fell in love with some other guy in New Zea land and two, she never even bothered to see her other child that has Autism. Not even once in the last 12 years. To top it all off she tried to get pregnant several times and had more than 6 miss carriages, due to the fact that she has Lupus. Funny how life throws you a curve ball at you every now and then (rolling my eyes). I think that you should also explain to the judge that you think that a Physiological Evaluation should be set into place. NO KID SHOULD BE SUBJECTED TO SITUATIONS LIKE THAT! Explain what you witness, and the rest is in Gods hands, as they say. Also please start calling around to different retainers.



www.affordablehelp.org



My wife and I have been married for 9 years, we have 3 children?

it sounds like you have a wife that is screaming for help and desprately needs it, and seeing as you have a 2 yr old has anyone mentioned Post-Partum Depression, all of these things need to be looked at, if she refuses to go for therapy then you will probably be forced to call the police and file charges on her for domestic violence, or go through child protective services and that way you can prove to them that you want to get your children some help and maybe they can force the issue with her, and then follow through with what they want you to do. seriously this woman is literally screaming for help in the only way she knows how, please help her and that way if it dosen't work out your conscience is clear, and you are more likely to get custody, 3 kids in 9 years and a 2 year old, she is overwhelmed and the post partum depression is a very real thing and it can last this long and longer if not treated



My wife and I have been married for 9 years, we have 3 children?

you sound like a girlie man



who gave birth, her or you%26gt;?

Why is it that you own people tend to get you down the most?

I'm a 16 yearold Black girl who has big drems of going to college and grad school and becoming a PR Manager or a producer. I'm in 3 AP classes and many of my Black peers around me say that I "act white" and that I can't go to college and make 6 figures because I'm Black. These things really hurt me. I went natural recently and mnay of the Black kids at my school are saying stuff like "your hair is ugly and nappy" and that I "used to have good hair." Wihle on the other hand non-black people are compplemeting my new look and my intelligence.



Why is it that you own people tend to get you down the most?

This sounds like the classic "crabs in a bucket" syndrome. The other folks are jealous of you because you are going somewhere and you WILL succeed in life without having to take your clothes off in a rap video, or bounce a ball. Somewhere along the lines, black Americans have taken on "stupid and happy" as a part of our racial identity. Many blacks think it's "our place" to be dumb and if you're anything other than that, then you're not really "black". (whatever that means!) If you seek to learn something in a learning institution, you are "acting white". If you speak proper English, you are "acting white".



Being educated is not being "white". It's being a human.



I applaud you for wanting to achieve great things in life by using your mind. Just keep your head up and don't listen to those zeroes. They flunk in school...they'll flunk in life. Too bad they're too busy picking on you to see that you're leaving them in the dust.



Good luck sister! :-)



Why is it that you own people tend to get you down the most?

Nah! its just you.



My kind, tend to be very encouraging and we stick for each other! :)



but then....... I live in Canada! :)



Why is it that you own people tend to get you down the most?

Do not be discouraged easily. Steak to your dreams. Do not mind what they say against you Just do what you think it is good for and time will come they will envy you, Go ahead with your dreams.



Why is it that you own people tend to get you down the most?

It's mostly out of jealousy. Sometimes ppl in someone's own culture don't wanna do anything to help themselves and hate it when they see others doing good. It help validate their own lack of self-worth if they trash you. The point is, why do you care? You know who or what you are. You sound like someone with a plan who is in the process of making her plans a reality. Stop caring what someone who you don't know and who doesn't know you says to you. What does their opinion really matter? At the end of the day it is your own drive and determination that will dictate in which direction your life will take you. I'm sure you are not alone with this. I am sure ppl said the same thing to Oprah, Obama and Condoleeza. I mean, think about it, who are these ppl to determine what is black and what is not? Who are they? The culture police? I will leave you with this saying by Dr. Seuss: Be who you are %26amp; say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.



Keep your head up and don't let the hood rats get you down.



Why is it that you own people tend to get you down the most?

That is NOT true....



You tend to notice this because you are around "your own people" most of the time.



Believe me other so called "non-black" people will do a better job at bringing you down....



Why is it that you own people tend to get you down the most?

Wow..well, the world is a big place and unfortunately high school is just a tiny section of this planet Earth. In college, I'm pretty sure you'll encounter people of your background who will be, on the reverse, totally supportive of your dreams and goals. I wouldn't say one's own people are the least positive; you just have to meet new members of the cultural group you pertain to. It takes time. Look forward to a bright future. And congrats on the AP classes. They go a long way in reducing the courseload you'll encounter in college.



Why is it that you own people tend to get you down the most?

Yeah, its pretty discouraging, but what you do is prove them all wrong, by continuing your education.



This is a bit sad, but when you are successful, everyone wants to be your friend, or find a way to use you, therefore they won't insult you.

Is it fair?

how parents control their children's lives? i mean i understand that they are your parents and everything and they want the best for you but sometimes in my household it's just unbareable!



for instance, i want to get two cartilage pericings on my left ear. but my dad doesnt let me. it's my body. i should enjoy doing the teenage stuff! but my dad is soo unfair and strict about it!



and i want to get red or turquoise highlights in my hair, but once again my dad doesnt let me do it. i mean come on!!! he stays im to young but im 14 and it's not like im going to be 30 with pink hair or something.



i think that parents should let their kids have more freedom and enjoy their lives more.



yea, and he doesnt even let me wear eyeliner, but i still do and i get yelled at a lot for it.



Is it fair?

14 is still a little young for some things. Some parent just can't handle it.



When I was 14, (I'm 36 now) I shaved one side of my head, pierced my own ears about 6 times up one side in the cartilage and bought temorary blue color for my hair. I did it without asking and my dad flipped out. He accepted it. Didn't like it but he still took me to dinner and stuff even though people looked a lot. After a while I got over it (less than a year) and move on to other things.



It took a long time for my ears to heal. 3 to 5 years. My shaved head took about 2 years to get back to nomal and the blue was gone in about a week.



It is your body but your body is with you forever. Things you do when you are 14 still effect you years later. Tatoos, piercings, damaged hair from lots of color, skin damage from tanning etc. That is probably why your dad is so serious about it. He knows.



Wait until you are 16 and then ask for those things again. I bet you won't want them in 2 years. Freedom and responsibility do not always go hand in hand.

I need tips on how to get a guys attention?

i was at a carnival last night and i wouldnt stop riding the bumper cars and this really hot kid my age kinda short curly hair wouldnt stop flirting with me but i dont know how to get his attention now cause he stopped coming around how do i get his attention?



I need tips on how to get a guys attention?

I think you sent him the "not interested" signal. Or he was just playing around.



I need tips on how to get a guys attention?

Just be yourself,go to him and talk to him,no one's perfect.



I need tips on how to get a guys attention?

go over and have a casual talk with him then next time you see him he'll approach you, a little flirting doesn't hurt right?

Can black people get lice? i have never heard of a black person with lice but is it possible?

i heard they wont servive in our hair becuz it has to much oil or something and i remember in elementry when the white kids had lice they never checked the black kids



o and what if you are mixed with purto rican are your chances higher?



Can black people get lice? i have never heard of a black person with lice but is it possible?

Your killing me with this question!



Can black people get lice? i have never heard of a black person with lice but is it possible?

Thank you peaches:) Report It



Can black people get lice? i have never heard of a black person with lice but is it possible?

yes they can,if they have long hair!



Can black people get lice? i have never heard of a black person with lice but is it possible?

Lice have mutated so they can meet the challenge if you are asking why"? Are you suffering from itchy hair



Can black people get lice? i have never heard of a black person with lice but is it possible?

A human of any race can get lice equally to anyone else (unless they are bald). Some black people keep their hair extremely short, so they might have less chance for lice to live in it. But it isn't a racial difference, it's only how short you keep your hair cut (that's why the army practically shaves your head). Your teachers were following a myth.



Can black people get lice? i have never heard of a black person with lice but is it possible?

Even birds and farm animals can get lice.



Keep scratchin' your head while wondering if you can catch them.



Can black people get lice? i have never heard of a black person with lice but is it possible?

The idea that a black person can't get lice comes from a tendency for blacks to use heat to straighten their hair. Lice, and their nits, can't survive in hair that's straightened with a hot comb, or with intense heat from a blow dryer. Even people with short hair can get lice. Race has nothing at all to do with it.

How do I become an Abercrombie Kids Model and am I capable of becoming one?

I'm 12 years old, soon to be in 7th grade, 5'2 and probably 100 lbs. I'm big boned so my doctor said that's how much I should weigh. I'm pretty skinny, and smart. I have broad shoulders, Chocolate Brown hair with auburn highlights, and a natural tan. I'd say that I'm pretty because everyone says so. I already know how to do commercials and everything which I guess is pretty good. Basically, I live abercrombie. I go on the website every day and always go to the store when I can. I saw a flyer at a mall just outside my city but, by the time it's open I probably moved to L.A. already.



Here's what I look like:



http://i199.photobucket.com/albums/aa306...



http://i199.photobucket.com/albums/aa306...



How do I become an Abercrombie Kids Model and am I capable of becoming one?

i'm guessing abercrombie (i freaking love that store!) would want an experienced model



How do I become an Abercrombie Kids Model and am I capable of becoming one?

i think all you do is send a picture in and they'll go from there. check the website. www.abercrombiekids.com besides the headshot i think you should include a full body pic too. good luck!



How do I become an Abercrombie Kids Model and am I capable of becoming one?

will you hate me if i truthfully answer? i hope not. No... i do not think you are what ABERCROMBIE is looking for, but heck... maybe in a few years you could be a regular abercrombie model!!



How do I become an Abercrombie Kids Model and am I capable of becoming one?

sorry but i really dont think your capable of becoming an abercrombie model



How do I become an Abercrombie Kids Model and am I capable of becoming one?

ya i think so



How do I become an Abercrombie Kids Model and am I capable of becoming one?

I think you are capable of becoming a Abercrombie Kids Model . you are pretty . Honestly i dont think you should ask other people though because they may say things that will crush you. dont listen to it. follow your heart . if you dont believe in you no one will. so dont worry about what other people have to say. especially the ones who told you that you couldnt. Live by this quote kid: I DO IT CAUSE I CAN, I CAN CAUSE I WANT TO , AND I WANT TO BECAUSE YOU SAID I COULDN'T

A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

for all the perverted males that have just clicked that link that i posted, get out of this because this does not concern you or your perverted comments!



well my mom wont let me pluck my eye brows!



they are bussshhhy and they get on my nerves!



heeelllllllp!please give me advice!im in the 6th grade.is that when girls start going through these things?



help!



i've tried talking to my mom about it but she busted out yelling and saying no!



why is that?



why dont parents let kids put makeup on or shave or whatever?



help me!



once i just started plucking my eyebrows and praticlly messed them up! my big sisters wont help me because one is on the phone all day and if she wasnt she still wouldnt. and the other is busy like doing excersises or something like that!



soo i pretty much have no one to go to [i think] but YOU!



so please helpp! me!



fastt!and any straightening hair tips[dont worry im allowed to straighten my hair]hahahah!



A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

well since you already tried plucking them, i'm assuming, you can do something else to your eyebrows without your mom saying anything. I would go to a hair salon and get them waxed. They only cost like $7 and the lady will make the perfect shape. Once you have the shape. Whenever you see hairs growing back, you pluck them, following the shape. But go back to wax twice a month maybe.



A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

Just do your eyebrows.



Seriously, what is the worst trouble you can get into?



A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

Hmm any chance in gettin bangs? Or just go get them waxed



A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

Well you should probably contact your local dermatologist because of the fact that plucking eyebrows can release spores carrying gingtrichosis which can have many effects such as elongation of ear hairs, nasal hairs, and mid digital hair between your fingers.



A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

Ok you can do it yourself... use a little brush and brush the brows up. Any that look too long over the natural browline , pluck it out.



Pluck your eyebrows when your pores are open. This is either after a shower or after you have applied a hot face cloth to your skin for a few minutes.



Place the tip of the tweezer as close to the root of the hair as possible and pull, always pulling in the direction of hair growth and keeping the tweezers angled as close to your skin as possible



A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

I think parents worry about their kids going overboard, or possibly causing themselves injury (I'm a mom, and yes, I can get a little overprotective).



Ask your mom what she suggests :) It may sound silly, but mom can give you the best advice you will ever remember... trust me ;)



A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

my mom won't let me do ANYTHING, sounds like yours! haha, but i still do it anyway and i think she gets used to it. she just needs to understand that ppl develop at differnt times. i have used my dad's razor before for shaving and it's SUCH a bad idea! haha, but hey i was desperate. as for your plucking eyebrows, my mother doesnt encourage that either... but i do it anyway. not hard to get a tweezer. however, i cna't exactly SHOW you how to pluck your eyebrows.... so as for your badly plucked eyebrows... well, just wait for them to grow bad and then pluck them again. make sure both sides are the same size and shape!!! watch some plucking eyebrow videos online or something but not hard to do! as for straightening hair, BUY STRAIGHTENING BALM. that's #1. it PROTECTS your hair from damage, which can turn out terrible!!! wash your hair, put on balm especially on ends of hair while still little damp, blow dry hair, straighten hair. hoep it helps and good luck! sometimes you just gotta do things yourself!



A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

go to a salon where they wax-they r professionals...theres a rare chance theyll mess up , making ur mom a little nicer on making ur eyebrows less thick



A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

YOU ARE IN THE SIXTH GRADE. are you serious? you shouldn't worry about that stuff until at least 7th grade. you're waaay to young.



A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

most girl wax their eye brows in about seventh grade but maybe your mom just doesnt want you to start acting too old too fast. ask her if she could maybe trim/tweeze them for you so you both win.



and on straightening your hair- try not to do it every day, but i definatly recomend the Chi. its expensive but worth it! use anti frizz products and straighten your hair patiently when dry.



you should comb through your hair, make a part, and tie your hair into sections with a scrunchie so you can seperate the straight hair from the curly hair.



also- don't wash your hair everyday, try to keep your straightened hair in for two days so you wont have to do it as much and it wont get too damaged!



A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

lol....i know exactly what ur going through. my mom did the same exact thing to me, she didnt let me do my eyebrows until the 8th grade, and they were pretty bushy...lol



and i have no idea why parents are like that...



A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

If your mom won't let you do it, then ask to be taken to a professional. The cost is 10$, so your mom can't say that it's "too expensive". If you start doing your own brows, it's likely that you'll over pluck and it won't look good. A professional will give you a nice brow shape that actually makes your eyes pop!



Parents are silly, I don't think anyone could understand them. When your sisters were younger, they probably overplucked their eyebrows or something and your mom is trying to protect her.



Try talking to your mom. Tell her that you are actually embarrassed by your eyebrows. Tell her that you need to start shaving.



A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

I'm in the sixth grade too but I don't have bushy eyebrows or anything but I have some tips just shave it off with your mom's razor or something



A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

well just pluck them already



whats ur mom gonna do, make them grow back?



:]



and about your hair, keep in mind, it ruins it for EVER. i straightened my hair like most of last year, and now i just have it curly 24/7. it looks really good in pigtails, actually.



anyway, kind of off topic.



Point is, if you're sure you want to ruin your hair, make sure you're putting some sort of product on it to protect it at least a little. A nicer way of straightening your hair is to have a big round brush and a hair dryer and just have fun with it.



you could/should talk to your hair stylist about it.



A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

haha sweetie... I plucked my eyebrows in 7th grade... Mine were horriable! hopefully yours arent that bad! your mom just wants thebest for you...and the longer you wait sopposively it is better... but if you really want to get eyebrow stenclis and then do it that way! I went to a friends house that did it for me the first time... and a trick to plucking your eyebrows:



Go from the crease of your nose straight up in a straight line. that is how far they should go towards your nose.



Then go diagonal from the crease of your nose and go straight through your pupil...that is were it should arch.



Then go past your eye a little bit and thats your eyebrows!!



Now for straightening your hair....Um there are some really good straightners from conair for like 20$. I would also get some hair procetor spray stuff.... it makes your hair soft and really straight and thinner if you have thick hair!



A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

ok first, u really dnt need to wrry bout it quite yet cuz boys wnt notice stuff like that till theyre at least 25 yrs old lol no jk but id say 8th grade or 9th grades a good time to start. if you screw it up at this age, sometimes the hairs wnt grow back n ul end up with messed up brows. i have a huge chunk i plucked too much n it hasnt grown back...since 7th grade!!! RULE NO.1%26gt; do not pluck above your brows. if it's rlly bushy wax it.



k straightening ur hair, ur gunna want a wet/dry ceramic iron. mine was $40 at stop n shop...ya theyre expensive but they last n allow room for multiple screw ups., which is a give in. it pretty much tells u how to use it. low heat on wet or thin hair and higher heat on thick curly hair. start by putting ur hair half up and half down. straighten the underneath then let ur hair loose and straighten the rest of it. ul figure out with practice how long to do each strand and stuff.



k now for ur mom... try to lay off throwing all this new stuff on her. the hair makeup and eyebrows all at the same time is prolly scaring her in a 'ur growing up too fast' way. be happy about it... in my experience, the girls that look like high schoolers in 6th grade usually end up pregnant. go for shaving first, then after you've been doing that for a few months do lipgloss and eyeshadows in light pink or a yellowy-bronze color. almost see through is the key.. she'll be ok and its rlly cute :) no heavy eyeliner, no lipstick, no rlly bright colors. i mean hey, experiment all you want but its more color coordination than how bright/dark the colors are that she'll care for. if you want ne more help, email me at secretblack6@yahoo.com



GOOD LUCK!!!!!!



A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

With practice you will get very good at plucking your eyebrows. If you rely on nobody to take care of your body, then no one can tell you what to do with your body.



Learn how to take care of your body on your own. Learn to become beautiful without makeup. Learn to do your own hairdos and your own eyebrows. I cut my own hair too.



To pluck your eyebrows evenly is done with practice. If you mess it up, it will grow back in no time.



Curly hair is pretty too .... be gentle to your body. The amount of chemicals you put on your body ( as lipstick for example) will go directly into your blood stream. The lipstick on your lips always end up in your stomach. Many allergies are caused by the chemicals we are surrounded by and the chemicals in our food and in makeup.



If you are going to shave, use soap not shaving lotion. Your mom is seing your new life style as costing her money.



Become a babysitter and earn your own money so you can buy your own razors. I personally use men's Gillette CustomPlus Pivot razors as they are the only razors that do not cut my legs. I have tried many girls' razors and never found a girls's razor that doesn't cut me. Somehow, men's razors are better because they shave their faces with it.



Your mom may not be ready to see you, her little girl, become a teenager. She wants you to stay a little girl for as long as you can.



Only shave below your knees, you do not need to shave above your knees, unless you are hairy like a monkey.



Do not shave your arms, only your arm pits.



Come visit me on my Yahoo360 page if you have more questions ... trust yourself that you too can take care of your body on your own.



Greetings from Seattle



Caroline



A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

Ask your mom to pluck them for you, or ask if you can get them waxed.



A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

Do your eyebrows but only if your completely sure how to do them. A simple way is to get a pencil and put it next to your nose and pluck out any hairs on the other side to your eye brow, then line the pencil up from your nose the the outer corner of your eye and pluck any hairs out on the other side. Then take one hair out at a time along the bottom of they eyebrow. You should be able to tell where the arch naturally is. There should be instructions and pictures of this some where on the internet. For your hair section your hair to straighten it and try not to play with your hair too much to prevent it getting oily. Use products if possible.



A girl problem!please help me females that have had experience.!?

Do them with out your mom knowing, but don't do them jurasticly, they don't have to be Dolly Parton or anything! Just pluck the scraggly hairs and with a eyebrow comb just comb the rest to the shape you want.



As far as straightening your hair goes, I don't know if this is what you mean but, it is best to shower every day not just for general hygiene but for the ease of straightening our hair. First apply a straightening mouse to wet hair, blow dry it damp as straight as it can get, if you don't have a blow dryer comb it dry with a tight comb. After your hair is damp take some straightening serum (a dime size at the most you don't want greasy hair) apply it everywhere especially at the roots. Start straightening your hair in layers (bottom to top). When you are finished your WHOLE HEAD spray it with a good hairspray. Take some hair off the top layer of your hair and back-comb it slightly to add volume. Spray it again with hairspray. Remember not to spray hairspray closer than 1 foot from your head. Don't spray specific strands/sections of hair unless you are using aerosol spray. Hope I could help!

 
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